Today, I woke up to my apartment in a state of total disarray. I've been asking my boyfriend to get either get a job, or clean the house. I just had a bunch of dental work taken care of. He doesn't have a job, and doesn't want to find one. I'm tired of trying to raise an already grown man. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I had to beg and argue with my boyfriend to get him to take a shower and brush his teeth. This has become a recurring argument now we're confined together. FML
Today, I had to beg my boyfriend to get him to take a shower and brush his teeth. This is a basic weekly argument. FML
Today, after a full shift at work, I got home to my boyfriend playing CoD, a full sink, crap all over the table, a full cat box, dirty bathroom, no laundry done and the kids at my parents' house. He yelled at me because the place was a mess. FML
Today, and ever since my boyfriend moved in, I've learned just how much his mother did everything for him and never taught him how to adult. In the last month I've had to show him how to cook, clean the house, do laundry and drying, use the vacuum, pay household bills, and he still moans its too hard. FML
Today, my wife called me at work to yell at me because the house is a mess. She hasn't helped me clean in over two years, and when I ask for help, there's always a new excuse, headache, tired from work, stress, etc. FML
Today, my boyfriend sits in an empty apartment, complaining about it being a rat hole. HE picked the place, HE refuses my help to decorate, as well as my offer to get his stuff from the old place, and yes, he could totally afford something better. But sure, his life is shit. FML
Today, after I finally recovering from being ill, my husband complained about the house being messy, that I needed to clean up after myself. I filled 2 large tote bags with his stuff laying around the house, and one small stack of medical bills for me. It took me hours to clean. But I'm the messy one. FML
Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML
Today, my boyfriend, who moved in about a month ago, decided he wanted to move back out. Why? Because I don't keep my place clean enough for him. This, coming from the same man who refuses to wash or clean anything because "that's what women are for." FML
Today, my boyfriend did the washing as an attempt to help me. Not only are all my clothes now pink, he refuses to do the dishes, vacuuming, bathroom, ironing etc., as he has done "plenty." FML
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Top comments
daisythebunny1988 9
It sounds like it's time to gtfo and let his momma take care of him judging from this post
Kurliez408 32
leave him, he's not worth it if he has no intentions of helping you out
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Comments (24)
Richard Luna 1
Get rid of ass
AmbrosiaFan 19
Break up with the low life.
icalledhisname 12
Kick him to the curb. If he hasn’t changed yet, he’s not going to, and it’s not worth living and being with someone like that. You deserve better.
TexasKitten79 6
So ditch him. He won't change because you've trained him to believw he can keep on like this with no real consequences.
Baby_123 8
Kick him out he doesn’t deserve you
DramaQueen 5
DUMP HIM
Brightside86 31
Relationships can be hard, be sure that your communicating openly, honestly and clearly about your concerns. There's a good chance you've just had a lapse of communication and you can get through this.
julfunky 29
While that’s excellent advice in some cases, this is not one of them. Cleaning the house and having a job is not part of a relationship, it’s called being an adult. You should not have to communicate basic human responsibilities to another adult. This is beyond that.
Delaney Brianna Schmuck 6
My husband is like this too. Sorry OP, it sucks.
julfunky 29
Get yourself a new man too. Adults shouldn’t be in relationships with children.
Taurus_ChicKa 37
Then dump his ass or kick him out. It's not your job to be his mother. If he isn't contributing anything to your lives, he's not worth the time you spend worrying about it.