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By notfatanymore - 13/11/2011 20:50 - Germany

Today, the guy I've recently started seeing confided that he's relieved I'm on the heavier side, and that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat. I just reached my ideal weight after losing 40 pounds. FML

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By cc - 24/11/2009 05:03 - United States

Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML

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By Anonymous - 26/12/2017 06:00

Today, I learned that my husband is attracted to obese, unhealthy women after celebrating my weight loss of 175lbs and improving my overall health. FML

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Thanks, honey.

By Fluffy - 13/12/2017 19:00

Today, I noticed that I've been gaining some weight. Don't worry, my boyfriend doesn't mind. His new favorite thing is putting my boobs on his head and saying he feels "safe". FML

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By notsoskinny - 18/04/2009 16:13 - United States

Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML

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By Srain - 07/01/2010 06:36 - Australia

Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML

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By keisha89 - 22/06/2010 00:27 - United States

Today, I finally met the guy I've been talking to online for a year. I'd dropped 10lbs off my weight. He'd shaved 20 years off his age. FML

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In the eye of the beholder

By Anonymous - 28/07/2022 19:00 - Israel - Jerusalem

Today, I'm in the best shape of my life after losing 2.5 stone over 2 years. I never got any female attention when I was overweight, so I was quite surprised when at the gym an attractive woman came over and started flirting with me. It was going great, until she said, "You'd be perfect if you had a dad bod". FML

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By boyishgirl - 27/02/2015 19:14 - United States - Anchorage

Today, I got to see my best friend for the first time in months. Her first reaction was to say, "Wow, you gained a lot of weight." I actually lost a fair bit. FML

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Roll with it

By anon - 17/09/2019 22:00

Today, my boyfriend encouragingly told me that he could tell I was losing weight, all because I had one roll fewer than usual on my stomach. FML

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A tale as old as "Time" by Pink Floyd

By Nelly - 04/10/2023 18:30

Today, now that I've lost a significant amount of weight, all the guys that turned me down saying they “liked me as just a friend” all of a sudden are in my DMs saying, “Hey beautiful” and asking me out on a date. Nice to know I’m only liked for my body. FML

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socalledbliss 0

Monday 14 November 2011 1:10

As long as you're comfortable with the weight you're at, don't worry about what he says! :)

philitron128 0

Monday 14 November 2011 1:10

He just likes to pretend hes the food;)

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TheSuperSpicer 6

Monday 14 November 2011 6:29

Sounds like a win-win. You're both happy about your weight, just in completely opposite ways (:

faysophie 2

Monday 14 November 2011 7:10

No way he could know you dieted. But the likes to watch fat girls eat is a bi freaky I would certainly investigate his other kinks and what turns him on about a chubby person eating exactly. Sounds like your body image is a little fragile without some freakshow input. As for being chubby aren t we

Ranimal 12

Monday 14 November 2011 7:34

Yeah, so what is the problem here? You're happy that you're at your ideal chubby weight and he is happy that you're chubby and eat food. Good job.

BitterRoses17 4

Monday 14 November 2011 8:16

purple91 8

Monday 14 November 2011 9:41

Am I the only person who thinks it is creepy that he has a thing for watching chubby women eat...?

wriptidez 0

Monday 14 November 2011 9:56

heck with him ... ask a doctor

Joey44 15

Monday 14 November 2011 10:13

Yeah, most people seem to be missing the point of this. The problem isn't that he called her fat, the problem is he's a 'feeder'. OP, it sounds like you haven't been seeing him too long, so I'd get out of there if I were you.