By unmarried - 04/05/2016 00:39 - Canada - Weston

Today, my fiancé received his divorce papers. Thanks to his procrastinating, his divorce is effective May 29th. We're supposed to get married on May 28th. FML
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Same thing different taste

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I can't feel sorry for you because you knew he was still legally married, yet you planned your own wedding to him. The smart thing would have been to wait until his divorce was final, especially since you know him and know he's a procrastinator

Can you sign the papers and stuff on the 30th but still have the ceremony on the 28th? Anyway, so sorry OP.

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Like everyone suggests, sign the official documents later. If you're trying to get photos of you both signing them then just sign a fake document or paper. No harm done

It's one thing to date a man in the process of getting a divorce (I was dating someone before my divorce was final, although we never have gotten married), but perhaps you should wait until the divorce is final before planning your wedding, especially if you know he's a procrastinator.

Dawoman 4

Really??? your fiancé is still married, you are with that person while he was married. I have no sympathy for you. You're probably a homewrecker

I agree with those saying to sign the papers later. You can have the reception on May 28, but just don't file them with the court yet. And make sure the date on those papers is after the finalized divorce.

may 29th is better any way. that is my bday

KingAdrock 16

Have the wedding, just have a friend perform the wedding as opposed to a legal officiant. Then when the divorce is final get married at city hall. Easily remedied, move on with your life.

katjohn11 6

That should've been taken care of way before a ring came into the picture!

Sirracha 5

Maybe don't date married men? ??‍♀️