By JJ - 14/11/2009 03:07 - Canada

Today, my boyfriend of three years sent me a text saying: "I don't think we can see each other anymore, the nights were great, but I think I'm falling in love with Julie". I'm Julie. FML
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Same thing different taste

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They were dating for three years before this. I'm going to give the poster the benefit of the doubt and say they were supposed to have been exclusive through most of that. Thus, he was cheating on her. And he's a dick.

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IMB916 0

It sucks that he cheated but look at the bigger picture: HE is ending it, because he loves YOU. Maybe this is one of those times when u give him a second chance. Idk..if it was me, I would, but its up to you

Maybe he is ending it.. but what about the previous 3 years that he has most probably been cheating? would you stay with someone if the cheated on you?

alliewillie 22

First of all, he didn't say that he was definitely in love with her only that he "thinks he may be falling in love with" her. I'm sorry, but that's really not enough to go on. Secondly, he's been having sex with another woman for how long now? And if after three years of being together he didn't care enough for her not to do so, what happens the second he thinks he might not be in love with her? She's in this to get her heartbroken the matter how it ends

mylittlecrow 0

Are you sure you're the Julie he's talking about? Just saying.. pretty common name:p

icansayanything_fml 0

i would love to hear the follow-up if she replied, "hey, you sent that text to the wrong person, idiot. it's over!" and he said, "um, no, i'm in love with Julie Q."

chrissy888 0

haha I was thinking the same thing...

kristidgranger 3

Aw, isn't that sweet? It's too bad you gotta ditch him now.

Antivirus_fml 0

From the way i see it, i think he's kidding. OP, dont be a bi*ch and ask him about this before taking any big step. (e.g. dumping him)

well, i'd say if you break up with him, you'll regret it. Not to say that cheating is acceptable but at least your bf really loves you. Stay with him. This is no way an FML. its not bad.

arienh4 0

Now there's a theory I hadn't considered. Might want to remember that one...

See. I don't know why people keep saying to break up with him. No one is bad enough to do what the other people who comment keep saying bad about what he "could" do.

This is no way an FML, it isn't bad, are you joking? They were boyfriend and girlfriend for years, this text was meant to go to someone else and clearly implies that the boyfriend was seeing another woman romantically. Do you know what that means, it means he was CHEATING, which is BAD. He doesn't love, respect or even care for her if he can cheat. Which means this relationship would be incredibly unhealthy. Just cause you stop doing a bad thing, doesn't mean you're a good commendable person that deserves a second chance. Especially since the bf was obviously trying to hide his actions in this case, because he knew he was doing something wrong. If I rob stores and one day decide to stop, is that a good thing, yes, but I doesn't mean I'm a good person that shouldn't be punished, because shitty actions have consequences, and if I was truly an upstanding person, I wouldn't be committing the horrible act in the first place.

loki09 4

You should simply send him a text that says; "Aw honey, I love you too. Well, I did until I found out what a cheating asshole you are. Thanks for the heads up. Its over." That is what I would do. However, should you decide to stay with him, you need to have a long, serious conversation about his cheating. Then, ass kissing and swearing it will never happen again should commence. :) Goodluck

I know what he did to you was wrong, but you shouldn't hack into your boyfriend's email and send yourself a break-up email. Dump him yourself, you know?