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By Brasilian29 - / Thursday 11 December 2014 12:01 / United States - San Francisco
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By  wRIPPERw  |  23

Just wait awhile, OP. She'll come around eventually.

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By  wRIPPERw  |  23

Just wait awhile, OP. She'll come around eventually.

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  Miss_Chevious  |  37

Or maybe OP should mail her half the bill, if she wants to walk home by herself maybe she should pay for herself as well

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  deloria_fml  |  22

How do you know she didn't? Why are you making assumptions about OP's girlfriend? She had every right to say no, and she didn't do anything wrong. This probably really came out of the blue.

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  Mr23  |  9

#15, Walking home by herself just means she needs to think, it doesn't mean that the relationship is over. And, yeah, way to be chauvinist by assuming they didn't split the bill.

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  Miss_Chevious  |  37

OP wouldn't be complaining about the 5 star restaurant if they had split the bill

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  Setareh23  |  34

I remember an fml about a girl who turned down a proposal and then drove home awkwardly together with op (they were far from home and only had the one car). People called her inconsiderate for not giving him space. Now this one is doing just that and people like #15 are getting pissed. Moral of the story; no matter how nicely a person tries to turn down a proposal, there will always be someone who has a problem with it.

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  Setareh23  |  34

But anyways, don't get too discouraged OP. Your gf just said she wasn't ready yet (2 years can seem pretty fast for some people), not that she won't ever want to marry you in the future. The situation sucks, but if you guys stick together I'm sure everything will work out in it's own time :-)

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  mrmcleod  |  29

#29 I dunno, I think it's a pretty safe assumption that he footed the bill with the intent of proposing marriage afterwards. That being said, #15 sounds like an ass.

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  sparxva  |  12

No. If she isn't ready after two years, then dump her and move on. Your time is valuable and should not be wasted on someone who hasn't figured out whether they want to marry you after two years. One-two years is a reasonable time period. Move on.

By  howtobestupid  |  16

Sorry op your life defenitly sucks

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  Sandsh8rk  |  36

There's a button for that.

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  Jmgonzo  |  10

Seriously? He's not typing on a phone not a keyboard.

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Unless you're typing on a flip phone, you should be able to spell 'definitely' with no problem. You know, since a ridiculous majority of phones nowadays have spell check...

By  theprophecy  |  5

you didn't deserve it D:

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  sparxva  |  12

Two years was enough time. Don't become one of these people who 'dates' for six years and their girlfriend/boyfriend is never willing to make the commitment to get married. Just move on.

By  lowkeybelieber  |  7

That sounds like a bitch OP. Sort you had to go through that

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  ChibiChibi_fml  |  22

Actually #7 said "That sounds like a bitch OP" which can easily be interpreted either way. He/she could be saying the situation sounds like a bitch or that the girl sounds like a bitch. lowkeybelieber needs to clarify which they meant before anyone can say whether or not #23 was actually wrong in how they read the post.

By  Narayan96  |  13

Right in the feels

By  RollingCakes  |  21

This really isn't a: "dump that bitch and move on OP" Fml. If the girlfriend says she's not ready, she's not ready so just give her time. Good things come to those who wait.

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  poncho55  |  40

#10, it sounds to me like he was just trying to make the night extra special for her. The proposal was part of the extra special night, but he obviously didn't get the answer he was hoping for and is very saddened at the least. This FML is heartbreaking to me.

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  mineller  |  23

I know! And I completely agree. I just feel like he's trying to make her out to be the bad guy, when she's not. I get that he's disappointed, but surely it would have been just as heartbreaking in a McDonalds.

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