Because seeing the husband hasn't had a child since his first child after the vasectomy, I'm pretty sure he'd be a smart enough man to figure out that he'd been cheated on if the OP decided to say she was pregnant. Reason being, a story was floating around the internet not too long ago that a guy had a vasectomy. Well come to find out, his girlfriend at the time stated she was pregnant. He kept his cool but finally confronted her after she said it was his and she wouldn't have an abortion. When he told her that it was damn near impossible for him to have kids, she admitted that she had a one-night stand with a guy but he (BF) was a better man and would make a better father.

That is a terrible story, is it only me that finds it strange that everyone thinks it's ok for women to be "baby-crazy" to such an extent that they're willing to lie and cheat. i mean, what's wrong with adopting or just not having any kids, it's obvious he doesn't really want to and a marriage isn't about forcing another to endure torture just so you can get what you want.

Him forcing her into childless marriage so he can get what he wants is fine by you?

i dont think she can see the sperm, since its microscopic and all...men still ejaculate semen it just doesnt have sperm in it

Vasectomy =/= no sperm

O_HALEZ_NAW, You are confused. When you have a vasectomy you produce semen that has no sperm. Semen is the fluid (the ****, the spooge, etc.) and sperm are the little, specialized swimming cells with only 1/2 the chromosomes of other cells (ova also have 1/2 the chromosome, too) and they are carried to their destination in the fluid. Sperm are produced in the testicles and a vasectomy prevents them from getting into the seminal stream. This is why the OP's husband had been able to shoot blanks for years without his wife knowing it.

plexico, You are confused. It is still possible for some to escape.

It's actually not, it's just possible to have a reverse-vasectomy 70% chance if I'm correct, if not, it's not a 70% chance.

Plexico, read a human sexuality book. Your little lesson made you sound like a smart ass.

Solip, yes it's possible, but it takes several thousands of sperm to get someone pregnant. The first sperm to touch the egg is not necessarily the one to fertilize it. It actually takes a barrage of sperm to weaken the outer "shell" of the egg before one can actually get in.

Bullshit, solopsistic! The failure rate of vasectomies is about 1 in 2000. The probability of sperm getting through after the procedure is so small that calling it "possible" is misleading. Even then, the few failures are probably procedures that were done wrong, so when a vasectomy is done right, it is impossible for sperm to enter the seminal flow.

Hey anything is possible. One of my best friends is a major miracle since her mom had her tubes tied and her dad had a vasectomy, yet they still had here after all of that! And no, mom did not cheat. She looks like her mom and dad.

haha i agree

agreed:)

You're an asshole.

Wow, just wow. You obviously don't know the heartbreak that goes with trying to get pregnant. Maybe one day you'll grow up.

As funny as it would be to see the look on his face when you tell him "Honey! you were right it finally happened!" I have to agree, getting pregnant for revenge, while quite hilarious, is probably not the most efficient method of getting him back in the long term... considering you would then be stuck raising a child either by yourself or with a lying ass. I do have to agree though, don't even think of forgiving him for this. A person capable of telling a lie of that magnitude directly to your face while sharing the most intimate of moments with you is most likely capable of telling you anything. You could always sew his balls to the bed sheets and them scream real loud in the middle of the night to see the look on his face when he tries to jump up. Funny, simple, no long term side effects. You get a good laugh out of it. What better revenge plan could you ask for (assuming you are one of those people who just has to ******* have the last laugh).

Well, assuming that it isn't her husband himself who fessed up to his lie and that she found out via some other mean, she could just always lie back to him and *claim* to be pregnant just to see his reaction. And when he tells her, astounded and furious, that it's impossible because he made sure it wouldn't happen, she'd go: "No no, I assure you. Actually I think I'm giving birth right nowwwaaaaaAAGH!" ...and pull out divorce papers from under her shirt.

I couldn't have said it better myself.

It depends on what the hospital offers. It also depends on the person's income.

I agree...and at the VERY latest he should have said something when she told him she wanted kids with him someday.