By AloneAgainNaturally - 09/09/2016 21:03 - United States - Charlottesville

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Today, I found nudes on my boyfriend's phone. We've been together 14 years. They weren't of me. FML
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Well, I'd talk to him, try to see what was going on. Don't be easy to trick either, ask him for the truth, if he gives it to you. I would leave that to your morality, we all make mistakes. But it depends on how we try and fix them, if he's dishonest, dump him. But, FYL

I imagine you and your boyfriend will have a very long talk.

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14 years? Awwwwwe!!!! But in lite of the possibility that he cheated.....well idk, I'd say ask him, and, if you don't mind, tell us, but FYL.

She was maybe looking for a certain picture and stumbled upon it. Not necessarily snooping.

how else did you think you made it 14 years when your going thru your mans stuff

if you have been together for 14 years and you aren't married yet... idk what y'all are doin

Some people just aren't bothered about getting married. If you've told each other that you want to be together for the rest of your lIves, getting married really makes no difference (aside from financial benefits). It's not like it makes a relationship less meaningful if you aren't married.

you've been dating the same guy for 14 years and haven't gotten married?? Does it really surprise you then cause there's a string chance that he was never planning on giving you a ring

14 years and he's just a boyfriend? Jesus, I'd say it's time to shit or get off the pot.

You know marriage doesn't change your relationship right? There are financial benefits but, apart from that, it makes no difference. You can be completely committed to each other and not need a piece of paper to show it.