By onyx_the_cat - 14/02/2014 03:49 - United States - Zion

Today, I aced my solo during my band concert. My parents were asleep the whole time. FML
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onyx_the_cat 3

The situation is more moral grey than I can describe. My mom has back problems and they get worse during winter, so she was in a lot of pain. She was in so much pain, she couldn't even get up and she stayed home to sleep while I was at my concert. I was a little disappointed, but I knew the situation. My dad on the other hand slept through my solo while at the concert. That man can sleep through anything. My mom once said when they were at a club he slept in front of the speakers. Unfortunately, my dad had to get to work at 5 AM and was really tired when he got home. I didn't know that when I wrote the FML though. He was honest about it though, but I wish he would of tried harder. My parents felt really awful, especially since they always been so supportive of me. Also, I'm a bit selfish because even after my dad said he worked early I was still sad about it. We all talked about it and everything is good now. They admit what they did was wrong despite some of the things being out of their control. My parents are caring people. They wouldn't just go to sleep during a concert without a reason (well kind of with my dad who can sleep anywhere). I would say it was an FML for both me and my parents because they really wanted to hear my solo.

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kirasant 19

Harsh, 53. OP said he understands. Just cus you understand, doesn't mean you're not sad about it anyway.

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karlcolt45 19

they got so excited that they fainted. completely normal reaction. kudos for garnering such an extreme reaction. they must be so proud

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mosquito19 14

you made it sound like it will never happen again.

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onyx_the_cat 3

The situation is more moral grey than I can describe. My mom has back problems and they get worse during winter, so she was in a lot of pain. She was in so much pain, she couldn't even get up and she stayed home to sleep while I was at my concert. I was a little disappointed, but I knew the situation. My dad on the other hand slept through my solo while at the concert. That man can sleep through anything. My mom once said when they were at a club he slept in front of the speakers. Unfortunately, my dad had to get to work at 5 AM and was really tired when he got home. I didn't know that when I wrote the FML though. He was honest about it though, but I wish he would of tried harder. My parents felt really awful, especially since they always been so supportive of me. Also, I'm a bit selfish because even after my dad said he worked early I was still sad about it. We all talked about it and everything is good now. They admit what they did was wrong despite some of the things being out of their control. My parents are caring people. They wouldn't just go to sleep during a concert without a reason (well kind of with my dad who can sleep anywhere). I would say it was an FML for both me and my parents because they really wanted to hear my solo.

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mattorama 15

Your dad's working hard to support you. Would you rather he be awake and clap your you, or feed and clothe you?

kirasant 19

Harsh, 53. OP said he understands. Just cus you understand, doesn't mean you're not sad about it anyway.

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gracehi 31

Well I'm glad you and your parents made up. It sucks when your parents let you down, but they're just people and people screw up sometimes. I hope your mom feels better and that she and your dad can enjoy your next concert.

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skipper2009 18

Wow you are a selfish little ****. Especially for being mad at your mother! This poor woman is in unknown amounts of pain and all you care about is her not being there? Get over yourself OP at least they are supportive.

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WD_Stevens 22

Yeah, I'd like to know too. Is it a guitar sort of thing or more of an orchestral setting?

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BoltTheSuperdog 22

Maybe someone videorecorded it? Ask around in your band and see if their family was videotaping your performance!

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cluch3 22

I would hate my parents if they did that.

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rockhead1270 5

They have you in band to keep your morals up and off the streets with drugs. That said, they stayed up too late partying the night before. You'll be just fine.

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rocker_chick105 31

Yeah, that's exactly why they want OP in band.

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amgrizzir97 5

Atleast your parents go to yours, they never come to mine

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SuperGrover10 20

Why would OP's parents go to your concerts? They probably don't even know you!

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Loveless213 3

As a band member I congratulate you on the solo. I would be so upset with my parents if they slept through mine

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whathefuckislife 11

man, so? you killed it and that's all that matters.

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CommanderWoof 10

You shouldn't have made them apologize. Back pain is a legitimate reason to miss your concert, as is work. Apologizing for doing nothing wrong dilutes future apologies.

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rec_chem 22

Someday, you'll have kids of your own and they'll have band concerts and I guarantee you too shall fall asleep. It's like watching paint dry.

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