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By Richard - / Wednesday 18 October 2017 13:23 / United States
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By  Tripartita  |  44

You and the husband need to bond over your joint sense of betrayal, ditch the cheater, and raise the kid together like in My Two Dads! Whaddya say, OP? How about it?!

By  chyiochan  |  26

I am sad to say, but unless your name is written on that birth certificate as the father (and even then) there's little to no chance you'll be allowed visitation or custody. I feel so sorry for you and your situation. Everything you've had for the past three years is literally gone, and that baby is too. Even if you didn't care, and wanted to stay as her side man (Or eventual husband if she divorces), If she for whatever reason leaves you, would would never have custody rights with that little girl. Find therapy as soon as possible, because it's going to hit you before you know it. This is a huge deal. Again, I'm sorry OP.

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By  Tripartita  |  44

You and the husband need to bond over your joint sense of betrayal, ditch the cheater, and raise the kid together like in My Two Dads! Whaddya say, OP? How about it?!

By  chyiochan  |  26

I am sad to say, but unless your name is written on that birth certificate as the father (and even then) there's little to no chance you'll be allowed visitation or custody. I feel so sorry for you and your situation. Everything you've had for the past three years is literally gone, and that baby is too. Even if you didn't care, and wanted to stay as her side man (Or eventual husband if she divorces), If she for whatever reason leaves you, would would never have custody rights with that little girl. Find therapy as soon as possible, because it's going to hit you before you know it. This is a huge deal. Again, I'm sorry OP.

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  DavyJoe  |  13

Well it was only two months, so hopefully he hasn't bonded with the baby too much. That's the only reason he would want visitation since she's a cheater and the baby isn't biologically his.

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  chyiochan  |  26

You'd be very surprised. He was waiting all 9 months for his 'daughter' to be born, and may have been extremely close to her. It's a lot to believe that you have a child and that is taken away. I couldn't even imagine!

By  RichardPencil  |  22

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  sweetbliss3  |  32

oh how true. I wonder how she kept getting away to meet her husband/ and boyfriend. you can't take that many vacations. sucks for both of them. I laughed about the swim thing bc even when life sucks you have to laugh.

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