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Don't stay with him. You deserve a relationship free from violence. if he threatens now, will he carry through when really mad? Do NOT find out. He doesn't understand what you have been through and doesn't deserve anyone if he even acts like that.
You did the right thing. f that guy
why would anyone do that trying to scare someone? it makes no sense! I wouldn't believe for a second it was a scare tactic and would say the real reason he dumped you is because you won the fight
You are better off with out him if he thinks “just trying to scare you” should even be a thing. What a complete asshat!
Trying to scare someone with physical violence is emotional abuse. This man may not have hit you like your ex, but abused you just as much. You’re better off without either of them. Stay safe, stay strong.
Should’ve given him worse! That’s absolutely disgusting that he wanted to “scare you”. Especially if he knows about your past! I’d say you dodged a huge ******* bullet. I’ve been abused and flitch at time even now that it’s six years later. The right one for you would NEVER use your past against you.
Not all abuse is physical - some is emotional/psychological. By raising his hand to "scare" you, it gives the implication that he intends to harm you. Given your past, I totally understand why you did what you did. And if he knew about your past and still did this, I say you should have aimed for his nuts rather than kicking his legs out from under him.
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If he knew what you went through and still did this, he deserved it and more.
He should have not tried to scare you with violence on the first place though.