Well well well aren’t you a piece of work. You may work out and have the body of a “God” but that personality of yours is garbage. The “overweight” girl is dodging a HUGE bullet. Hopefully she finds someone who will see her for who she is - A HUMAN BEING, and not a body to “fetishize” like you say. If you want a fat free body for life, go buy a sex doll.

as long as you don't call her nasty to her face, that would be rude. you're allowed to be attracted to healthy fit people.

so you’re not allowed to have standards dongdong xiang? Look in the mirror when talking about garbage personalities

So much misogyny in these comments who raised y’all? smh!

Look, she's not your type. That's fine. She may or may not be great person - But it's kinda hard to tell from how you seem to assume the worst behind her motivations for doing things, and how you describe her in light of your assumptions. Overall, it really paints a picture of why there aren't women beating down your door to be with you, my dude.

You're lucky she even likes you.

Someday you will be over 30, OP, and your body will start shifting whether you like it or not. Good luck getting a date with THAT personality after that, because there's a difference between 'having a type' and what you just posted.

You have a right to turn her down. She has a right to be mad. You have a right to work out. She has a right not to. Point is, you both clash in personalities and choices you each make. However, you are on fml to get pity that an overweight girl that has tattoos is the only one that likes you. She had the confidence to tell you. You had the confidence to tell her no. Now, your fml can be "I turned down the only girl that liked me".

it cracks me up when men scream, "I deserve a hot chick!" & then they whine how hot women won't date them unless they're 6 foot & rich. Date who you want, but don't be a hypocrite when the same shallow ass standards are applied to you.

You should know that FML is pretty woke. If you post stuff here that makes sense it's going to get downvoted. Body positivity movement was meant to help people who had lost limbs or were burn victims feel better about themselves. It was meant to help curvy girls not feel the need to be stick skinny. Instead it's being co-opted by people who want to overeat and then get mad at you when you're not attracted to their slovenly lifestyle. Stay strong.