She sounds like a real psycho this is exactly why i refuse to date a vegetarian. She should have told you up front. and as for you ordering big deal who cares?

Pff, who the heck cares whether or not she's a vegetarian. (By the way, I never realized how often that word is misspelled...dang, people.) I'm not saying it's the worst thing in the world you could've done - but jeez it's weird to order for someone else, regardless of whether they're a man or woman, or regardless of whether it is date number one or date number forty. That's just /weird/. You have no real idea what she likes, and even if you did (which obviously you didn't), you don't know what she's in the mood for unless she mentioned it. Still, she didn't handle it very gracefully. I think people who are that passionate about their beliefs should make that fairly clear, seeing as it obviously affects her to the point where she doesn't seem to want to be with anyone who does eat meat. So you think she'd mention it if she felt that strongly. Or, at the least said something to the effect of oh, I'm sorry, I don't eat meat, don't agree with it, so this probably won't work out for us. :/

You should never order food for other people, whether she was a vegetarian or not doesn't matter in the slightest. By ordering for her, you're basically treating her like a child and implying that you are in charge of her. Whether or not I would have ordered the same food as a date had ordered for me, I would have felt incredibly insulted that I couldn't be trusted to order my own food.

the majority of the people posting here are incredibly ignorant and rude. first of all, being a vegetarian does not deprive you of flavor or vitamins or anything else your body could need. most vegetarians are much healthier than meat eaters because the majority of meat eaters seem to make the false assumption that just because they'll eat anything it means they get everything they need. eating pizza and burgers will deprive you of a lot of nutrients, not to mention overloading your body with fat. secondly, many vegetarians, like most people in this world, have accepted the fact that they are not going to find a person who is exactly everything that they want. therefore, they are willing to date meat-eaters as long as they are respectful. my boyfriend just keeps his food away from mine if he orders meat so i don't have to smell it and he drinks something to wash it away before kissing me. lastly, yes eating meat is "natural" for humans. hunting to survive is "natural." the meat industry is not and that is what drives most people to vegetarianism. it is unnecessarily cruel and most people would rather turn their head and pay an industry to do something they could never bear to do themselves. that being said, the issue here is not that the girl was a vegetarian; that was just an unlucky coincidence that made the situation even worse. the issue is that the op thought- for some reason- that he could decide what another person should eat without asking or even knowing the person. it would never even occur to me to make that decision for someone. it means that he is probably inconsiderate and self-centered, and thinks that ordering an expensive meal will impress someone. even if he had good intentions he really wasn't thinking about her at all and that is no was to begin a potential relationship. of course she could have handled it better but why would she want to? she probably wanted to make you as uncomfortable and upset as you had made her. that is all.

well should have cured your infatuation!!

tell her you didn't kill it, you're just going to eat it

LMFAO. Who goes to the bathroom without ordering?! and why is she so offended, does she expect everyone to be a vegetarian like her?

and you ordered for her because???

not worth it at all

I'd like to post an FML that says... Vegetarian. that way everyone can get their opinions and facts and nonfacts about vegetarian yes/no and whys out of the way so it doesn't over take comments anymore