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This FML is tricky, I don't know what to vote. Your ex could really have been terrible or maybe you were actually a bad boyfriend..

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Being in the same restaurant doesn't require his Ex to come over to his table. So yeah, sounds like Stalking, otherwise she would have just avoided him or left.

It's her own loss. If she was more willing to blindly listen to someone else's opinion than to stay and form her own, she wasn't worth the effort anyway.

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But just imagine you're on a first date, and already there's a crazy ex starting drama. Sometimes people don't want to get caught up in that. I doubt it was because she took the ex's side and believed her. My had a friend whose boyfriend's crazy ex was always around and harassing her. To most, a crazy ex is a red flag. Unfortunate for OP, but I don't blame the girl.

I clicked both "YDI" and "FYL" because whether you deserve it or not depends upon whether or not you really were a bad boyfriend.

This FML is tricky, I don't know what to vote. Your ex could really have been terrible or maybe you were actually a bad boyfriend..

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I still think it's an FML regardless of whether OP was a good or bad boyfriend simply because the potential girlfriend should've been given the opportunity to decide for herself whether OP is good or not, not hear it from an ex who would obviously be biased.

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#12, If OP is not necessarily a bad person, but that he and the ex were just bad for each other- you have a good point. But if the ex was warning the new girl about theft, cheating, or especially a history of abuse in their past relationship-that's different. The new girl has a right to know. It would actually be unfair NOT to tell her.

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#12) Exes can be very biased but they can also be very right about their exes too. I know that's my ex-boyfriend, for example, is a guy who hunts for certain types of girls and wants to convert them forcefully and he verbally abuses them until they fall apart. BUT, I also know my ex doesn't show his true colours until much later. So basically, scenario 1) I walk into a restaurant, see him with some girl who is about to get pounced on.. And I feel the urge to save the girl from him. And I spe

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Speak for yourself. I'm not getting into a shouting match with a stranger in public over some guy I just met.

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