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By Anonymous - 11/11/2010 08:39 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of 4 years told me that I appear to have gained some weight. After realizing that it made me feel depressed, he tried to make me feel better by making love to me. I decided to go with it. While doing so, he paused and said, "I'm sorry baby, but your weight is too much pressure for my back." FML

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By pooh anne - 26/02/2013 20:26 - United States - Fort Smith

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By June - 05/10/2010 04:47 - United States

Today, my boyfriend grabbed my love handles. It tickled, so I giggled and squirmed out of his grip. He looked at me quizzically and said, "I'm surprised you still have feeling there with all that fat." FML

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By Anonymous - 08/10/2021 23:00 - Trinidad and Tobago

Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML

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amerwin 3

Thursday 11 November 2010 16:44

Tell him he needs to get his weight up. He sounds like a sissy.

ulicksam 0

Thursday 11 November 2010 17:06

Seriously, if a guy complains about your weight during sex, it's too much weight. Most guys would let a little extra slide while they're getting some.

Comments

Nuahavizu 17

Thursday 11 November 2010 21:40

why are you complaining? i mean, he felt bad for saying it and even tried to make it up to you with sex.

jjhester 0

Thursday 11 November 2010 21:48

hey fatty stop complaining

lolugotowned 0

Friday 12 November 2010 7:45

dick move..

0opsie 6

Thursday 11 November 2010 22:38

WTF my comment's gone

GreyJay 0

Thursday 11 November 2010 23:16

If you are fat, you should be grateful someone is willing to have sex with you

p33lzhear 6

Friday 12 November 2010 0:40

id dump his ass. youd have to gain A LOT of weight for you to suddenly be too much. that doesnt happen over night

ojosverdes26 6

Friday 12 November 2010 1:46

Uh, doing exercise isn't all that hard. Just make sure to do both aerobic exercise (biking, running) and anaerobic exercise (lifting weights, push-ups, crunches/sit-ups). Do this every day or every other day and you'll see the weight come off and you and your boyfriend will be much happier. Seriously... if she's so fat that she's causing pain to her boyfriend's back during sex, there's a problem. DO YOUR EXERCISE. Don't complain or be depressed about something YOU CAN CHANGE.

joa76 3

Friday 12 November 2010 2:58

I don't get it...you'd have to weigh a LOT to hurt his back, unless he had back problems. I mean, if girls can have sex with a guy who weighs like 100 pounds more than them, with him on top, with no problem, there's no way a guy should have any trouble with any girl being on top unless she's morbidly obese. Now, if he actually has legit back problems, then maybe it would make sense, but otherwise? You'd have to have gained a TON.