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By Anonymous - 11/11/2010 08:39 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of 4 years told me that I appear to have gained some weight. After realizing that it made me feel depressed, he tried to make me feel better by making love to me. I decided to go with it. While doing so, he paused and said, "I'm sorry baby, but your weight is too much pressure for my back." FML

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By teddyissmall - 14/04/2014 06:29 - Canada - Montréal

Today, I was hanging out with my boyfriend. Everything seemed to be going well, when all of a sudden he turned to look at me with a pensive and thoughtful expression. I expected him to say something important, but instead he just said, "I was wondering, how does it feel to be fat?" FML

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By Fluffy - 13/12/2017 19:00

Today, I noticed that I've been gaining some weight. Don't worry, my boyfriend doesn't mind. His new favorite thing is putting my boobs on his head and saying he feels "safe". FML

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By GirlfriendsAreBadForYourBack - 06/08/2013 16:01 - United States - Lynbrook

Today, I was feeling down because I always think that I'm overweight. My boyfriend tried to prove me wrong by lifting me up. I threw his back out. FML

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By Srain - 07/01/2010 06:36 - Australia

Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML

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By anonymous - 14/12/2011 05:42 - United States

Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML

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By notsoskinny - 18/04/2009 16:13 - United States

Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML

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By pooh anne - 26/02/2013 20:26 - United States - Fort Smith

Today, I was trying to be sexy and change in front of my boyfriend. As I was changing, he started to talk to me about how we should both try and lose weight. FML

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By June - 05/10/2010 04:47 - United States

Today, my boyfriend grabbed my love handles. It tickled, so I giggled and squirmed out of his grip. He looked at me quizzically and said, "I'm surprised you still have feeling there with all that fat." FML

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By Anonymous - 16/05/2020 14:00

Today, I asked my boyfriend to honestly tell me if I had become overweight. He replied that yes, I had, but that it was OK because I was his "Lumpy Space Princess." FML

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By Anonymous - 08/10/2021 23:00 - Trinidad and Tobago

Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML

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amerwin 3

Thursday 11 November 2010 16:44

Tell him he needs to get his weight up. He sounds like a sissy.

ulicksam 0

Thursday 11 November 2010 17:06

Seriously, if a guy complains about your weight during sex, it's too much weight. Most guys would let a little extra slide while they're getting some.

Comments

ryrock310 10

Monday 5 November 2012 6:29

Doesn't matter. Had sex.

KhaozD 3

Thursday 6 December 2012 19:16

dump his ass

ManiPaul 6

Saturday 21 September 2013 20:40

It's called putting down the fork, try it once in a while

stavik96 0

Tuesday 15 October 2013 8:08

Yeah dump his ass for not being able to lift your fat...

xrudeboyrock 29

Sunday 16 March 2014 1:55

This is horrible, and the other commenters are just being mean. Lose weight if you want to or if you are unhealthily overweight. But do it for you, not for him.

marissab23 4

Tuesday 27 May 2014 8:28

If you are actually overweight, which a lot of people think they are but they really aren't, then I'm sorry but you should take better care of yourself.. But if you aren't actually overweight then he needs to grow a pair and go to the damn gym. But either way that's rude as hell for him to say.. If he wants to comment on your weight he should try to nicely tell you that you should be healthier and exercise..

__lindsxy__ 10

Friday 13 June 2014 6:29

Dont let him get to ya. Every one is a different size. You deserve better. (:

blackangelwings 16

Friday 16 January 2015 1:16

He tried

KatVa 23

Sunday 25 January 2015 22:56

he was just being honest. he's your boyfriend, im pretty sure he didnt mean to be rude or anything like that.

whatshuman43 8

Monday 17 October 2016 1:54

Why do so many people agree with op, he at least tried to be nice while he was being crushed. I mean he should've taken the top to avoid this but still, losing weight isn't the end of the world, it'll actually make you healthy or some crazy shit like that