When I finally left my cheating ex, my first night alone, I slept better than I had in years. I never regretted the breakup. Try to look at your situation as if you were advising a friend - it can be easier to see the best course when we are on the outside looking in.

Maybe talk to him and make a decision, being in a state of relationship limbo is the worst. Also are you sure, he's cheating? I had a girlfriend who thought I was cheating because I stopped texting during working hours, after she told me that she was no longer allowed to be texting at work, and she could lose her job.

Look, I don't want to be funny but these virtual relationships are bullshit. So, I presume you have never actually met the guy? The problem with online chemistry is that it is all in your head. Basically you take what you know about the guy and you build the perfect boyfriend around that IN YOUR MIND. That is the only place where that person exists. You have never smelt his weird body odour or gotten frustrated because he doesn't clean up after himself. It also means that no real life guy ever has a chance because to you they can never be that perfect. Also, how will you ever compete with a real woman who can offer him physical sex? I am sorry about the reality check but investing heavily in a virtual relationship is setting you up for hurt one way or another. Even if you eventually meet in real life and find that he is nothing like the guy in your head.

Having said that, there are ways to meet real people. For one thing, get out a little. Join conservation groups and dance classes. Do stuff where you can actually meet people. Good luck!!

How can he be your boyfriend if you don’t see him physically??