Today, after struggling with an eating disorder and hiding my symptoms for months, I got up the courage to tell my mom that I need help. Then she asked if an ice cream would make me feel better. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I finally broke down and told my mom that I'd relapsed with my eating disorder. She told me to quit whining and eat a burger, because she didn't want to pay for another therapy session. FML
Today, I admitted to my parents that I have an eating disorder. Instead of trying to help, my mom stared at me and said, "Duh". FML
Today, I told my mom I was finally going on a diet. She let me know how proud she is of me fighting temptation, by making my favorite cookies and dinner. FML
Today, I told my mom that I'm bulimic and have been for a few years, and that I needed help. She responded by saying, "Well that's clearly not working for you. Why don't you try anorexia?" She then patted me on the head, smiled, and walked away. FML
Today, I told my mom I lost 30 pounds because of an eating disorder. She told me to keep up the good work. FML
Today, I felt sick to my stomach, so I told my mother I didn't want to eat dinner. She started accusing me of being anorexic, so I ate a little bit anyway to make her stop. I then threw up, only for her to take it as confirmation that I have an eating disorder. FML
Today, I decided I need help, so I confessed to my mother that I'm bulimic. After she looked it up online she started screaming at me for "Wasting food that I'm not paying for." FML
Today, after I skipped dessert for the third day in a row, my mom cornered me and accused me of being anorexic. I'm actually not far off being clinically obese and I'm just trying to diet, but nothing I say will convince her. She wants me to see a psychiatrist about a disorder I don't even have. FML
Today, after struggling with anorexia for months, I got food poisoning. FML
Today, I told my mom that I think I’m anorexic and she told me she didn’t care. When I asked why, in disbelief she replied, "Honey, you are 5’3 and over 350 lbs, at this point you NEED to be anorexic." FML
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XxKate1294xX 0
If someone has an eating disorder..how do you think they'll answer that no matter how thin they actually are?
mn_girl 0
nothanks, I don't know if you'll actually ever read this, but on the offshot that you do.... Stay strong. Eating disorders are an illness (despite what others may think). You did the right thing by going to your mom for support. I'm sorry she didn't support you. I went through the struggles of an eating disorder, too. I struggled with it for 2 years before finally seeking help. Now, 4 years later, I am finally to the point where I am moving on and living life without the eating disorder. Like I said, I don't know if you'll even see this, but if you do.....I saw that you are from Minnesota too. Park Nicolette has an amazing eating disorders treatment center called Melrose Institute. I strongly suggest that you give them a call. I had tried so many things and they were finally able to help me get better and move past my eating disorder. Stay strong, life will get better and you will beat your eating disorder.
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hedgehogs 0
This is really sad, but no doubt she's part of the problem. And that's something that will have to be addressed in your therapy. I hope your family can be brought into your treatment with you at some point. Still, she IS trying to help you, and you are comfortable enough with her to ask for help. That is a good starting place. My mother would have just made me feel worse. Luck and blessings to you both.
screamjewel_ 0
She was just trying to help. But yeah, I hope you get real help and get better. Stay strong!
fernandita91 0
rocky roooooad :P"
randomdude003 0
HARDEN THE FUDGE UP
kraykray_fml 0
awww that sucks!! im recovering from anorexia but my mom found all the hidden food that i didnt eat.....
rottentomatoes 7
your mom sucks.
Lolitia 4
I think people are missing the point, mom did try to help yes but E.Ds are NOT that simple you can't just eat and fix them or stop purging. Sometimes people trying to help makes you feel that much worse because you know your hurting them too.
candyapple12345 0
maybe you should tell your family about it instead of hiding it so they can better understand and won't offer you ice cream and "ruin your life".
candyapple12345 0
ot you could seek help from a doctor instead of complaining to people on a website about how bad your life is.
jlynntiger 0
she's just trying to help