Today, while on vacation, I think I met my soul-mate, and quite possibly the love of my life. My vacation is to celebrate my 8-year anniversary with my husband. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Good morals, you say?
Today, I think I found the person I feel is my soulmate while I was in Montana this past weekend. My friend’s wife’s best friend. She was perfect, same sense of humor, same sarcasm, good morals, and absolutely gorgeous. I was struck. And then I received a text message from my wife. FML
What a catch!
Today, I had the best time of my life with the girl of my dreams. I took her out to lunch, we went to the beach to jetski and had a romantic walk. It was the perfect day. Then, in the evening, I had to go home to my boring wife. FML
Decisions, decisions
Today, I realized how in love I am with my soulmate. How how do I tell my wife? FML
Today, my coworker was talking about how he's met the man of his dreams and they've been dating for 3 months. He showed me a picture of them at Niagara Falls last weekend. His new boyfriend is my husband, who was supposedly on a business trip in Boston. FML
Trip of a lifetime
Today, on a vacation with my best friend who I’m secretly in love with, I was dressed to the nines, and felt confident and upbeat about myself. Not once has he made a move on me the entire time, not even in the hotel room we both shared. At the end of the trip he told me I’m “such a great friend.” FML
Today, I got back from a romantic vacation at a fancy hotel with my boyfriend of 6 months. After a steamy love session, I confessed that I was in love with him. Later, when I got out of the shower, all his stuff was gone and I was stuck with the entire week's hotel cost and no ride home. FML
Living a lie
Today, I realized I'm very much in love with my old boyfriend. I got married to someone else a few months ago, who I also very much love. FML
You fool
Today, my wife and I both spent a weekend away separately with our close friends. However, we ran into each other, unplanned, at the airport. She was with her girls and I was with my girlfriend. FML
Today, I met my wife's other husband. FML
Today, I met my husband's other wife. FML
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QDonahue16 9
Life is like a box of chocolates, sometimes you grab the wrong one, but think it's right.
SWC_Penguin 17
Come on. You know 8 years-worth of annoying habits your husband has. You know none of this new guy's annoying habits, but trust me, HE HAS THEM. Your ignorance does not mean he's perfect.
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jem970 19
OP remember how much you loved your husband and try and work through your problems if you have them. That guy is probably just something you think you want. All marriages have dry spells but try and rekindle it on this vacation instead of trying to make it worse and possibly ruining it over this.
limitedition 25
Everyone seems perfect until you get to know them. I'm sure you felt the same way about your husband in the beginning. If you want out of your marriage decide to get out before you start sniffing around for a new person.
QQmore_fml 18
#34 this is obviously not a fantasy... Saying this person is my soul mate is moving into reality. You would be a fool to think her saying that is just a simple fantasy.
limitedition 25
Um.. I didn't say anything about fantasy. Saying a person is your soulmate after meeting them isn't anything near reality.
Adm_Twigs 19
This OP should be shot..
kozzard 17
You first. There is nothing wrong with the thoughts, its what she does in response to them that is important. This is more of a sign that something is wrong in her marriage, and needs to be looked at and fixed if possible. My girlfriend of four years had a similar situation. Instead of leaving her when she told me, I talked to her about it, and now we're happier than ever. Again, you bite the bullet first, then we will go from there.
amifaiyaz 12
You met this guy on a vacation, so I'm guessing you haven't known him for long enough to decide he's your soulmate. Don't do anything stupid.
Sonfang 19
You don't decide who your soul mate is. The god and goddess made you for one another, two halves of a whole.You can fall in with people, you can marry and have children but if they are not your soul mate they just aren't. OP needs to talk to both husband, and other person, follow her heart. Perhaps take a vacation alone to a quiet meditation spa alone to think on her future decisions.
ardencred 7
Cabana boys are always somebody's soulmate! You married your husband for a reason OP! If things are bad let the douche bag know!
Acik91 26
40 touched on a good point. For some of those boys (I'm imagining a place somewhere hot, beaches and a local boy that OP fell in 'love' with, although obviously I can be mistaken) it's nothing more than a job to make the ladies fall for them. That might not be the case, we don't know enough from this FML, but then again - it might be so.
DocBastard 40
Could you please come to my house before you get home so I can slap the shit out of you for acting like an idiot? Calling someone "the love of your life" when you just met him is as stupid as claiming a new wine is your favourite after just sniffing it but not tasting it. Get your damned head on straight.
tararochelle 18
I blame all the romantic movies where someone always falls for someone else right as they are about to walk down then aisle. They romanticize cheating! Don't cheat. Karmas a bitch and the grass is ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. Most people cheat for similar reasons don't make excuses for breaking a vow. It's pathetic.
wvcheesehead1 9
You are married and apparently love your husband enough to go away with him. The fact that you have let yourself be sad about this is disheartening.
Sonfang 19
#47, perhaps they have been having problems and this is a "reconnect" get away. Just because its an anniversary vacation doesn't mean it's a happy one...
wvcheesehead1 9
She did use the word celebrate. That usually does not mean misery.
gracehi 33
I met my soul-mate while I was married to someone else. My husband at the time was a really terrible person. He was physically abusive, a thief, a liar, and an adulterer. Leaving my (now ex) husband for my boyfriend was the best decision I ever made. But if your husband treats you well, I think it would be foolish to leave him just because you think you're in love with someone you just met. I don't know you, your husband, or your "soul-mate," but I have the feeling that, if your husband is a good man and now you've spontaneously fallen for someone else, that in another eight years you'll have found another "love of your life."
toalysium 15
Sounds like you need to calm your ovaries.