Today, my dad finally told me why he never paid child support to my mom when he was supposed to for the last ten years. His reason? Because I'm a girl and I wasn't that important. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my mom cleaned out my bank account, saying my "no-good dad" owes her child support and that she'll get it one way or another. FML
Today, I found out that my dad makes me wear dresses and skirts not because I look pretty in them, but because he was sick and tired of people asking him if I was a boy or a girl. FML
Today, I found out why my dad always treated me badly as a kid compared to my siblings. It's because I was conceived while my mom was cheating on him. On top of that, he made it clear that he still doesn't consider me a "real" part of the family. FML
Today, I asked my mother why she had me in the first place, as we never get along. She replied because my father wanted me. So, I called my father to ask him the same question, he said he only wanted to have me to keep my mother around, and that didn't work, so I was a waste. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that my mom paid him to date me. FML
Today, at age thirty, my dad gave me the first compliment he's ever given me: "Remember to wash the pan out. Oh, and good job doing your chores and your mother's today." And everyone wonders why it took until last year for me to figure out I'm the same gender as this shitbag. FML
Today, I found out why my dad doesn't want my girlfriend coming to our house anymore. Apparently, her dad used to bully him a lot during high school and he's never gotten over it. He's threatened to disown me if she comes back over here. FML
Today, my father told me that it wasn't that I was written out of his will, it's that he never thought to include me in the first place. FML
Today, my mom and dad went to court to negotiate child support for me and my brothers. During the meeting, my dad was asked, "Sir, are you saying that the only reason you want your sons to live with you full time is so you don't have to pay child support?" To which he responded, "Yes." FML
Today, I finally had it out with my abusive father. I spent almost an hour detailing about how he constantly humiliates me in public, treats me like slime, and hits me at random when he's in a bad mood. His response was, "Quit being such a wimp" because I'm "not female." Mom took his side. I'm 16 and can't move out. FML
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jacetopia96 1
Sexist Dad, thats not cool.
mrahhhhh 21
Tell your dad the following: "So are you saying you prefer males to females?!?!?! Wait a second... oh, now it makes sense! No wonder you left mom; you don't like women! Well I wish you and your life partner the best of luck. Remember, you have to go to Massachusetts to get married!" If your dad is a homophobe, which I bet he is, then this should work. BTW sorry if I forgot that gays can get married in Connecticut (if they can). I don't follow East Coast news.
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VeilOfVelvet 0
I really don't get why people on here think they have anything to argue about. 1) The dad is a sexist jerk. 2) It was wrong of him to say something like that--especially to his own kid. 3) OP needs to take him to court and demand the child support he owes. 4) If he doesn't give, he goes to jail. That's all that needs to be said. It doesn't matter whether or not there are girls in the world who are also sexist. It does NOT mean that the OP deserves to be treated the way that she was, so don't even bother to bring it up.
IsRaeliPrinCess 8
wat an ass
Laura123456789 0
in my opinion, your father is a dick
mfelax9556 8
dude...what a dick...
natncody 0
Is this "dad" sexist? You bet. Even more so is how this was just a hateful and cruel thing to say to your own child. *Hugs* to you. I don't believe any one person is more important than another. No matter what your sex, race, age, religion, nationality, etc. This is not a "dad". This is a sperm donor.
fml3010 0
shit. some medieval excuse!
megaanlovesmusic 1
what a sexist bastard ..
robin26_fml 0
ouch that sucks. I know the feeling of not having a dad. mine left when I was five it would be depressing if I found him and he told me he left because im a girl. just keep your head up and prove to him even girls van be successful. nobody deserves to have a dead beat dad. he just doesn't want to take the responsibility that he's a father and him telling you that he's a sexest pig is his way of trying to ignore the fact that he hasn't been a good father
AnarchyAmber 5
Lol I always laugh my ass off when I see posts about the father never paying child support blah blah blah. If the mother really gave a shit she would've taken him to court to make him pay child support. By order of Division of Child Support any parent who has been taken to court and legally has to pay child support will go to prison if they don't pay. Your mom just didn't care enough to make it legit so your dad never had to pay so you should be going to her and asking her why.
WarriorOmen 25
You realize it costs a **** ton of money to get to court, right? A working mum with kids doesn't have the extra cash laying around to take someone to court.
jennifer6848 0
My dads an ass to. Sadly court forces me to see him every Tuesday and every other weekend, when he admits he doesn't want us there