Please don't let the size of your **** define who you are; your personality is more important for a long term relationship. This would have sounded like bullshit to me a few years ago, but now, at 28 years old, and dying inside to have my first real girlfriend, I understand it. **** I feel old. But please, don't think you are less valuable as a human being because of your chest size. Please.

Whenever you think that big breasts must be better than little ones, ask yourself this question. What will a 25 year old woman have between her big **** when she is 80? Answer: Her belly button.

I'm actually really jealous that you don't need a bra. Those things are uncomfortable even when I get a proper fit.

I'm a 32H.. and it sucks! Nothing fits, Im constantly being "dress coded" at work, I've been told to "put them away" (where!!), and I have chronic back pain from having a small waist. Grass is always greener. Embrace who you are, and let your personality shine through!

Look at these nice comments. awwww when in reality,, ill just stop right there. The truth is too painful.

OP you are not alone! I'm breastfeeding and STILL can't fit into an A cup. I wish I had some inspiring words for you, but as someone who is in the same boat as you, I fully believe all the positive comments are BS. Flat-chested girls get treated differently. That's just the cold hard truth (at least, for me it is). I truly hope you can somehow find peace with your body (and if you do, tell me how! Lol)

Big breasts are so overrated. I'd rather go to a store and spend $20 on 4 or 5 bras instead of having to spend $60 on just 2.

Boobs are boobs, well like them regardless

Hey don't measure your self esteem by the size of your breasts. I know it's easier said than done but I'm on the small side too and I don't give a flaming crap. It's how I am there. And it's how you are and anybody who wants to mock or judge you based on that is an idiot. You're fine the way you are. There are padded bras if you want some "help" and yes you could get implants if it really bothers you so much but you can always rock nice tops and dresses with a small chest. It won't stop you from looking good! Cheer up girl.

Check out needundies or lulalu websites. Although I will say the way lulalu tells you how ot measure for bra size is wrong. Its the same way victorias secret uses to shoehorn as many people as possible into their limited number of sizes. I can guarantee you the band size will be bigger than you need it and wont give you any support. The correct way to measure your bra size is to measure under your breasts and around your back while keeping the measuring tape parallel to the floor. This is your underbust measurement and band size. Next, bend over so your back is parallel to the floor and measure around the fullest part of your breast keeping the measuring tape perpendicular to the floor. This is your full bust measurement. To find the cup size subtract the underbust from the full bust measurement. The different corresponds to the cup size. 1"=A, 2"=B, 3"=C, etc. For example if your underbist is 32" and your fullbust is 36" your bra size is 32D. Its best to do this either naked or with an unpadded bra.

some guys like little *******.

Yay! You don't need bras! You can mercilessly troll people who complain that your nipples are showing. "I need a bra because? Are you telling me that I have boobs? Thank you! Thank you very much!" No blouse will be too transparent for you; you could go bare chested in public without policepeople arresting you! "Sir, with all due respect, I have no boobs; therefore, I cannot be arrested for showing my chest. Will you arrest my boyfriend too, while you're at it?" And don't worry about having a boyfriend; some guys are leg guys while others are booty guys; keep those toned and you will have your chances!