That's quite rude. So just because someone is fat they should be made fun of and not treated with respect? People like you are what's wrong with this world. I believe some karma may be heading your way.

If someone's an asshole do you confront them about it? By your logic, no, you treat them with respect. People shouldn't get away with this shit. It's far from healthy, and people should be entitled to their ******* opinions on who they want to go out with or not.

"If you are extremely fat, you deserve what comes your way." This is coming from a 15 year old that has hardly any experience in the world outside of high school and mom and dads house. Some overweight people have medical conditions and can't control their weight even with medications and exercise. You're an idiot and I hope you stay in school so you can learn and hopefully grow the **** up. Overweight people do NOT deserved to be harassed or embarrassed because of their size.

Yes they are entitled to their opinions on who they want to date, but they don't have to be so rude and hurtful. She probably feels bad enough about her weight already. She doesn't need people making her feel worse. All he had to say was I'm sorry I'm not interested instead of being a total asshole about it.

judging by your username, bio, and hair, no one gives a shit on what you have to say, codplayer4lyfe.

You realize that some people can't help being over weight? They could have an illness like PCOS and gain weight rapidly. So yes you deserve to get down voted because you obviously didn't think there could be a reason why someone is fat. Be considerate next time.

okay, i'm fat no use lying been made fun of my fair share, one day i got pushed over the edge picked up a guy and in the words of my classmates hulk smashed the pavement with him do fat people deserve to be made fun of? No, you never know how far you are going to push someone till you get hurt for a joke to yourself

Judging by your username, you haven't had much real life experience, have you?

#18 You do realise that having an opinion is one thing and insulting people is another? You know... People have RIGHTS just as much as they have OBLIGATIONS. And EVERYONE has rights. So your rights end when other's begin - that means that you cannot do something to violate other people's rights. What he did to her was not a freedom of speech and/or an opinion. He could simply say no, you are not my type. What he did was very insulting and shows his deep insecurities. People make fun of others to feel better about themselves, and that guy just reached a whole new pathetic level.

To everyone giving CODplayer4lyfe a hard time, just remember that he's a 15-year old kid with minimal life experience and is obviously clueless as **** and doesn't have any idea that everyone deserves to be treated with common decency and respect no matter how she looks. You can't say something grossly insulting and stupid and then justify it by claiming it's an "opinion". Wait, where was I going with that? Oh yeah - get a ******* clue, asshat.

POV: Yes, he's entitled to be appalled at a woman who is well overweight. It's not wrong to say to someone "I don't feel attraction for you, because you're heavier than what I consider healthy" It's biology. It's logical. It's blunt. But to go ahead and describe them as a whale, and mock them - yeah that's just not cool. People can argue medical conditions etc, but in 99% of the cases, that's fictitious. Being fat is justified in science via input vs output. Medical conditions (excluding mental) attributes to like 10-20% of weight gain. If you're 60kg then gain 30, then yeah understandable. But when you can't wear the same clothes etc and DONT recognise it or CARE about physical health, then that's idiocy. I admit I am a shallow man. I can't stand dating people above 25 BMI, however - I don't mock people for their weight if they're vulnerable enough to ask me out. There's a huge difference between being honest, and being a ****.

114: he could've simply said "no, I'm not interested." nobody owes anybody a reason, you don't have to tell anybody why you're not attracted to them--simply that you're not. THAT is why that guy is an asshole #1. secondly, he was super rude about it.

He probably has a fifth-grade mentality. You deserve better, OP.