Today, I found out why my husband doesn't want me to go to the doctor. It's not because of the reasonable copay. It's because he has let 3 other women use my insurance to give birth, in the last 4 years. They are all his. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out that the insurance that my husband signed us up with for next year doesn't cover any of our doctors. Now we need to find 4 different doctors who take our insurance. FML
Today, my health insurance refuses to pay for either contraceptives or the small surgery to get my tubes tied, even with a doctor’s note confirming I need it. They are quite happy, however, to pay for any number of abortions, subsequent therapy, and/or complications during childbirth. FML
Today, I asked a customer three times before he saw the doctor if he had any medical insurance and he replied "No" each time. Paying his bill out of pocket, this dude had the nerve to ask, "So why didn't my medical insurance cover this?" He had coverage. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend of three and a half years is talking to two other women. I’m four months postpartum. Not to mention, he took our child to go see one of his girl best friend's house, when I specifically asked him not to. FML
Today, I discovered my boyfriend has been slipping me abortion pills to "supplement" my regular birth control. FML
Today, I found out that my husband’s crazy ex girlfriend has not only moved to our area, but has also landed herself on his patient list. He’s a gynecologist. FML
Today, I found out that the reason I hadn't gotten pregnant yet was because my husband had a vasectomy after the birth of his son. He even had the nerve to continously tell me, "it'll happen soon, baby" and let me believe we were trying. FML
Today, I found out that the reason I hadn't gotten pregnant yet was because my husband had a vasectomy after the birth of his son. He even had the nerve to continously tell me, "it'll happen soon, baby" and let me believe we were trying. FML
Today, I had the abortion my husband and I agreed on, after multiple forms of birth control failed. His family somehow found out, and now they're all mad at us for not telling them I was ever pregnant, with a child we never wanted, and took precautions to avoid creating. FML
Today, I had a procedure that should have been covered by my health insurance, but while I was there, I asked the doc to sign a prescription for an unrelated thing. This apparently turned the insured procedure into a consultation, so they charged me full price for the procedure, over $15,000. FML
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Top comments
kaelp 17
That is so wrong on your partner's part. How did he even get away with it?
ShortieRose 30
Oh, OP, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. At least you found out now and not years from now. I suppose it's time for you to have a serious talk and make some big decisions.
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isera 7
First, I'm really sorry this is happening to you. I hope you can re-evaluate your relationship and maybe find a life that is better for you, without him. I know that can be hard, especially initially, but things will get better! Don't let him treat you like that!! If you do have kids with him, his criminal behavior (insurance fraud) will very very likely give you an advantage in any future custody battles. Make sure you collect all the records you can get your hands on (originals or copies, names of those women, hospitals, admission dates, etc), so you can use them against him if you want or have to. Now, about the insurance scam: Does he have a type? Are they all look-a-likes? Or was he just sending them off to different hospitals so nobody would get suspicious?
KrDizzy 16
That's disgusting. You better get tested too. I hope you don't have anything laying dormant. Get a divorce while you're at it.
Thatguy07 11
Dump his shitty ass
faifai_fml 21
On the plus (?) side, insurance fraud is a felony and he'll be in jail for a while...
HeatherCorinne 14
Turn him in for fraud and move on
MadWorld6 5
Woooow sorry OP that is ****** uppp! You should divorce him then annonmously go give his car insurance details out to boy racers
heatherrr17 19
Wow, how could he think he could get away with it? I'm sorry op that has to be hard ?
ChickenNug 17
Turn him in for insurance fraud.
Reality_bites 14
Anyone else curious about why the OP wanted to see the doc? I mean is it because she too is pregnant now?
Bismuth92 11
I'm more curious about why she hasn't been to the doctor at all in the last four years. I go to the doctor several times a year just for routine stuff (birth control, allergy meds, sports injuries, travel vaccines, etc.) and that's without even counting the times that I actually get sick and need to see a doctor for that.
bloodyfreak_fml 4
That is insurance fraud and very illegal. Sounds like he's headed for jail time and a divorce.