Today, my boyfriend is pushing for sex even though I’ve just had spinal surgery, his reasoning being I only have to lie there, so it’s not like he’s asking me to move or actively participate. He basically wants me to ignore my pain and become a masturbation toy. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend has spent weeks trying to get me to cancel my breast reduction surgery, for selfish reasons obviously, even though he knows how bad my spinal problems are getting. I don’t want a hunched back in my thirties, but all he cares about is his sex life. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he’d rather masturbate than have sex with me, and that sex with me is a chore. FML
Today, I realized that my boyfriend of 3 years saying that his back is always hurting to avoid putting in any work during the bedroom Hokey Pokey was his way of saying I’m a lame screw. FML
Today, after my boyfriend had been away for months, I invited him over to have sex. He said he hurt his back too badly to do anything. Don't worry though, it doesn't hurt enough to stop him from working on his truck for several hours. FML
Today, I realized the only way I can get hard is if my partner rubs my back and hamstrings for an unreasonable amount of time. My boyfriend thinks I’m being manipulative. FML
Today, three weeks after a traumatic emergency cesarean section, my husband keeps sulking because sex is the literal last thing I want right now. The fact that my body is still sore and healing is apparently irrelevant when he is horny. FML
Today, my boyfriend would rather jerk off than have sex with me. Even if I'm next to him in bed. FML
Today, I hurt my back, and now I have to lie on my stomach for twenty minutes every hour so I can ice the pain. My boyfriend won't stop using my ass as bongo drums every time. FML
Today, I was having sex with my boyfriend and somehow managed to pull a back muscle. I’ve been naked for 3 hours, scared to move because it hurts so bad. FML
Today, I had surgery on my "girl parts" and can't have sex for six weeks. My boyfriend sees no need to spend any time with me until I heal up. FML
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Top comments
princess_stabitty 20
If he doesn't need you to be an active participant, then he sure as heck can just use his hand. Moron.
alex_jaguara 33
Giant red flag.I hope you get better and dump this selfish ass.
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princess_stabitty 20
If he doesn't need you to be an active participant, then he sure as heck can just use his hand. Moron.
alex_jaguara 33
Giant red flag.I hope you get better and dump this selfish ass.
DanielleinDC 34
DTMFA. You just had surgery. It's going to be a long road to recovery. He can use his hand.
IHaveThePower 18
My joking answer: Offer to let him have a go if you can kick him in the nuts first. My serious answer: You need to seriously take a look at this. If this is a one-time brain fart, tell him he's a jackass and move on. If this is a pattern, you need to figure out what you will and won't tolerate in a relationship, because expecting you to do things that hurt you is a serious boundary problem.
Brightside86 31
Plot twist, he's only pushing for sex because he's worried about your needs. You've already been through so much, and he just wants you to know that despite it all he's still into you. You're more than just a perfect spine.
ropoa 11
**** that! Dump him. What utter display of selfishness. No respect at all! I hope you heal quickly.
Even Neeve 3
If he’s pressuring you and you are trying to say no…. That’s beyond sketchy. Get out as soon as you can, please.