Today, a guy I have been crushing on since forever finally talked to me. Too bad it happened after an anxiety attack when he carried me from class to the nurse's. The first thing he said to me when I came to was, "You're heavier than you look." FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, a guy I like tried to talk to me. I got so nervous that I had a panic attack and puked in front of him. FML
Today, I ran into someone I'd never had a crush on in school, but because I've realised we have a lot in common, I get nervous whenever I see him. I was so near to him while paying for food that I had an anxiety attack, and had to leave quickly. FML
Today, the man that I have a crush on finally touched me. This would have been great, if not for the fact that it was to roll me on my side while I was having a seizure. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he loves me. Instead of saying it back, I had a panic attack. FML
Today, my crush talked to me for the first time. He told me to stop staring. FML
Today, the guy I've had a crush on came over to my house. My Dad came in to see how we we're doing, looks at me and says "Man... You've REALLY been puttin' on the pounds!", pokes me in the stomach a few times, and leaves. FML
Today, the guy I've been crushing on at work finally asked me out to lunch. I was nervous we wouldn't have anything to talk about. He spent the entire hour talking about how amazing his new girlfriend is. FML
Today, I overheard my crush and his friend talking about girls they would date. When his friend mentioned me, my crush said, “If she wasn’t fat, hell yeah.” Choking back tears at school for the rest of the day was not an easy task. FML
Today, it's my birthday. When my crush spotted me in the hallway and wished me a Happy Birthday, my nerves got the best of me and I blurted out, "You too!" FML
Today, I finally told the guy I like that I'm in love with him. He's the first person I have ever fallen in love with and owning up to my feelings was nerve-wracking due to my anxiety. He rejected me and ghosted me after saying he would get in touch soon. FML
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Top comments
ber4fun 23
At least he was a gentleman enough to carry you there. I wouldn't worry about his comment as a lot of people can appear skinny but weigh more due to muscle mass, water retention, etc..
caggybandicoot 34
Really hope you're feeling better, OP. I don't think he was being malicious but still not the best thing he could've said.
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Comments (53)
warner69 8
ha gayyyyyy.... literally
Nezah 6
I dont think what he said had a bad meaning. He could just be saying his arms are getting tired or something.
Samsparkles 3
Don't worry OP, that's how all the best anime relationships start!
thatnucca 36
Offer to buy him dinner in return for him gentlemanly ways...
ReilyStafford 13
First, don't worry about his comment. Take it as a compliment and move on. :) Second l, please get help with your anxiety. This is one of those things that could get worse without treatment and it's not worth the risk. It may go away on its own or it may ruin your life. Believe me, I spent 30 years suffering from anxiety disorder and after 2 years of help I was effectively cured. If I had known I could have had years and years living free of anxiety I could have lived a much better life.
clickme 17
It's too bad you felt like it was a knock on you. I'm certain he was just looking for something to say immediately following what was probably a scary situation for him. He was probably ecstatic you were alive and conscious! He carried you some distance so it's very likely you are a healthy weight.
andrmac 25
You're both dudes so the comment is meaningless. If you pick up another guy that's probably a common thing to say.
sylvienoir 18
if a dude is carrying you, you have no right to bitch about your weight. js.
EevieBear 26
I don't think he meant it to be rude, but probably as a joke. Even so, fyl op. At least it will make a good story?
deltax 8
I don't see the problem. It doesn't matter if you are heavy if you look good! Plus muscle is denser than fat.