Today, a guy I have been crushing on since forever finally talked to me. Too bad it happened after an anxiety attack when he carried me from class to the nurse's. The first thing he said to me when I came to was, "You're heavier than you look." FML
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Today, a guy I like tried to talk to me. I got so nervous that I had a panic attack and puked in front of him. FML
Today, I ran into someone I'd never had a crush on in school, but because I've realised we have a lot in common, I get nervous whenever I see him. I was so near to him while paying for food that I had an anxiety attack, and had to leave quickly. FML
Today, the man that I have a crush on finally touched me. This would have been great, if not for the fact that it was to roll me on my side while I was having a seizure. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he loves me. Instead of saying it back, I had a panic attack. FML
Today, my crush talked to me for the first time. He told me to stop staring. FML
Today, the guy I've had a crush on came over to my house. My Dad came in to see how we we're doing, looks at me and says "Man... You've REALLY been puttin' on the pounds!", pokes me in the stomach a few times, and leaves. FML
Today, the guy I've been crushing on at work finally asked me out to lunch. I was nervous we wouldn't have anything to talk about. He spent the entire hour talking about how amazing his new girlfriend is. FML
Today, I overheard my crush and his friend talking about girls they would date. When his friend mentioned me, my crush said, “If she wasn’t fat, hell yeah.” Choking back tears at school for the rest of the day was not an easy task. FML
Today, it's my birthday. When my crush spotted me in the hallway and wished me a Happy Birthday, my nerves got the best of me and I blurted out, "You too!" FML
Today, I finally told the guy I like that I'm in love with him. He's the first person I have ever fallen in love with and owning up to my feelings was nerve-wracking due to my anxiety. He rejected me and ghosted me after saying he would get in touch soon. FML
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ber4fun 23
At least he was a gentleman enough to carry you there. I wouldn't worry about his comment as a lot of people can appear skinny but weigh more due to muscle mass, water retention, etc..
caggybandicoot 34
Really hope you're feeling better, OP. I don't think he was being malicious but still not the best thing he could've said.
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Comments (53)
caggybandicoot 34
Really hope you're feeling better, OP. I don't think he was being malicious but still not the best thing he could've said.
ber4fun 23
At least he was a gentleman enough to carry you there. I wouldn't worry about his comment as a lot of people can appear skinny but weigh more due to muscle mass, water retention, etc..
Royness 8
What happened after?
andrmac 25
He sounds very nice to make sure you're taken care of by carrying you to the nurse, so I would say he at least values you and likes you as a friend if nothing else.
HKing35 12
Take it as a compliment to how fit you look
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
It might mean more than that too. The guy was nice enough to carry you to the nurse, so he's probably not a jerk. But every guy should know that you normally don't make comments about a girl's weight. So he's obviously not thinking straight for some reason, maybe cause he likes you too.
Amama_fml 30
The FML says the Op is a guy.
JBChristian 47
#46, so? Women can look fit too. If I were OP, I'd take the crushes comment as a compliment. There's a difference between being being fat, and being heavy.
POM4ever 20
I really hope you're feeling better. Anxiety is a bitch. But I wouldn't take what your crush said too harshly. Obviously that wasn't the best thing to say, but if he is a kind enough person to carry you to the nurses, I'm sure his intention was not to hurt your feelings.
est000dog 11
Offer him to go work out together :D Him getting stronger and you getting lighter, making it easier for him to carry you around if needed :) I hope you feel better now, OP
JBChristian 47
Well, if she's heavier than she looks, I think she's good in the fitness department. Muscle mass is more sense than fat.
Nickimariek 20
Should have told him "you're weaker than you look." Jk, but that was a little rude of him
beckitaboop 4
I'd be happy with that comment, I'd take it like he doesn't think you look heavy! Hope you feel better after the anxiety attack. Sending love.
Heteroscodra 8
He helped you during an anxiety attack, that's a good thing. Maybe he tried to lighten the mood.
worldclassrager 41
With your sex being male that comment does make a bit more sense...and hey keep pumping the iron you might get something with him...
sparklyre 6
If you're heavier than you look, that indicates bone density and muscle mass are high and body fat is low - in line with societal norms of what is attractive. In other words, this is a compliment.