A tale as old as time

Yeah no, get out. We want sex just as much as men do, thing is we can respect the fact there's a difference between friend and fuckbuddy. 'Being forward' about admitting he played on her emotions to make her feel comfortable enough to bang is not rude, it's emotionally manipulative. He made OP feel safe and trusted him, only for him to casually reveal he never really gave a care for her, that's more than enough to shock you, it's enough to feel infuriated, hurt and despise that weasel of a "man".

This is completely wrong. Not every guy is attracted to every girl just like not every girl is attracted to every guy. Some people DO just want to be friends and saying that every guy friends with a girl wants to **** them is stereotyping, biased, and a bit sexist. So...you know.... Stop that ಠ_ಠ

Yeah man you are so correct 90% of men are friends with woman because they want to have sex with them the other 10% is split between 9% being men that are gay and 1% being very rare friendships that have been going on since a very young age

What bullshit. I have had guy friends that weren't remotely interested in having sex with me. Not every man is a sex craved maniac.

Can you really blame him? That's how all romantic relationships work. You approach someone that you find attractive, events transpire, and then you have sex. I honestly don't get why you people see this as some kind of sleazy, long-con. Everybody is rushing to judgement, despite having no other information. For all we know, the guy just told her that, when they met, he had amorous intentions. When I met one of my closest female friends, it was because I found her attractive and decided to sit next to her in physics class. That's literally the only reason I approached her; I wasn't thinking, "wow, I bet she has a great personality".

Because it's extremely common, you obviously haven't heard or been around many "nice guys". They literally think that if they are kind to a girl, that girl should give them sex. Then they throw a tantrum when the woman isn't interested. I was friends with my girlfriend, I developed feelings for her. So I told her I'd like to date her but if not that's fine and I really don't want to lose her as a friend. I didn't become friends because I wanted to have sex or even date her, she was just sweet and funny. She DID have a "nice guy" though. She did what she could to help him but just wasn't interested romantically. He would constantly blow up over tiny things and make her feel like shit and have her begging for forgiveness. He would constantly make her feel like a horrible person because she wasn't attracted to him and spread rumors about his she was "unable to love". She finally got sick of it and said she was done. A friend of his told her how he said that if he could kill her and get away with it he would. Because she didn't want to date or have sex with him. These people are unfortunately common. There's a reason we don't give him the benefit of the doubt, it's obvious what kind of guy he is.

I'm guessing you are one of those people who complain about being friendzoned and blame the other person for what someone else did. Also are properly one of the "Nice ones" ?

Was your "friend's" name Aaron?

Why should she sleep with someone who didn't actually value their friendship at all and only saw her as a possible receptacle for his dick? If he thinks he's entitled to sex just for treating a woman decently, I'm pretty sure he's in for a rude awakening.

Why? OP is free to sleep with whoever she wants to. If she doesn't want to sleep with the sleeze, she doesn't have to.

You'd be surprised, some guys do put that much effort in because they're deluded enough to think it's the most sure fire way to get sex.

I guess you have never heard of "nice guys." They only do nice things so they can get laid, then call the women bitches and ****** because they were "friendzoned" by them.