we all know sex isn't everything blah-blah-blah. but seriously...SEVEN times - in a row!? How about asking him on a date with just the 2 of you...no friends or places he can obtain alcohol. doesn't have to anything fancy...make it simple - fun & no pressure. Play the night out & if there's still an issue, kindly address it then without accusing. From there, decide if the relationship is something you really want to pursue. Remember, don't settle for Mr. Right Now...find the man that you want to set the bar for your children.

Stop visiting him? 7th time lucky perhaps isn't working out.

honestly OP I had a similar situation at one time, booze was always more important then Any any level of intimacy, which i consider very important in a relationship. I say if you tell him how you feel and he continues to leave you feeling unsatisfied whether its sexual or emotional you should leave him. after all you are putting in effort to make the relationship work while he is putting alcohol above your needs. but that just my opinion from my own experience

it is **** like this that makes me wonder why I am still single

I mean, he doesn't HAVE to have sex every time you visit. Maybe he's getting drunk on purpose, it's worth asking about at least.

he's a drunkerd, move on. if he can't spend once a week sober with you that's an issue.

Clearly you need to find someone who can satisfy your needs. Also being shit faced that much doesn't sound healthy...

thats when you say **** his ass, dump him, and come to me instead haha but seriously. dump him

Dump the empty ****.

And you're still seeing him???