You deserve it. Why should she have to supply all the money? You had a piss poor excuse for quitting. Could have just kept the relationship on the DL at work. I think it's good for her because had you not wanting both of you to get fired have been your real reason, you could have talked about it before hand with her, and seen if she was okay with such a large decision. Sorry you got dumped for being lazy. Maybe next time think of a better excuse.

If he lived with his girlfriend, they would have the same address and phone number on file, or if they just moved in together, they would have to notify the employer of the change. (He said "when I got home to her," so I assume they lived together.) The employer WOULD find out. Surely he was planning to find another job.

You are stupid for trying to leave your job for a girl. Never trust girls that much!!!

If she broke up with you over it, it means you guys didn't even talk it through. You don't make decisions like that without talking about it. I voted both YDI and FYL.

I understand what you were going for but you should have kept it secret until you found a new job.

Did you really expect this to work in your favor, op?

I never understood rules against co-workers dating. Why are you telling them who to date?

Well doesn't that go for all jobs?