So many problems are spawned from guys uttering the phrase "I don't care." Hopefully you can try and avoid that in the future and be a bit more interactive.

As a married woman I can tell you - Don't EVER tell your wife "I don't care" when asked your opinion OP. Poor choice of words, you could have said - I'm as undecided as you are Hun, let's make both or whatever is easiest. Offering to help doesn't hurt either. Good luck! I would just make both giving the kids a choice.

Just pick one. Dear lord, how hard is that? After the first five minutes, you should have said, "okay, let's just go with" whichever one and be done with it. If someone asks for your opinion, "I don't care" is a terrible answer. This has nothing to do with being married or pleasing your wife, it's about being considerate of the other person. You are NOT being considerate.

Pulled pork sounds better

Just pull your pork out and go meatballs deep. I could do better, but it's to early for me. In all honesty I think pulled pork is more versatile, you could do a sandwich or do it over rice or just plain.

The right answer is always pulled pork

Umm pulled pork obviously! Meatballs are an appetizer Just have both

Just ask your son what he wants, problem solved.

That's when I would just go by Little Ceasars and puck up a bunch of pizzas and call it done. lol

I do agree she took it badly but sometimes women just need an answer so they feel better about the decision. she doesn't want to feel like she is making the wrong one even though it may seem like a small matter.