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By candy man / Thursday 4 September 2014 19:32 / United States - Chapel Hill
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wow #18 then it seems to me you just don't know how to keep it interesting in bed most people complain their man goes to quick I normally don't hear about them complaining that they are taking their time and trying to please you, you are just all back wards..... then again trying it backwards might help you stay inerested.

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  ptoka  |  19

No kidding, I've never met a girl that got upset that it was too long. Is it that you aren't orgasming as it goes on? I'm intrigued by all this.

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  gracehi  |  31

I can't get off from sex, so sometimes if my partner takes too long, it does get a little boring and perhaps even painful. But that's very rare that that happens, and I'd never just get up and say he was taking too long before he was done. I have said, "Um, I'm sorry, but I'm starting to get sore," but never just, "you're taking too long and I'm hungry."

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  marcranger  |  28

I generally get off during foreplay. Anything after that is beyond boring to me. My mind wanders too much after I'm finished. Honestly, I prefer mutual masturbation (or, if I'm being perfectly honest, solo masturbation...I don't care much for relationships any more).

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  shudson186  |  17

You aren't alone #49! I am the same way sadly. No matter what I can not get off when having sex with a partner. It can get painful as well sometimes when I go for too long, but never have I been rude in that way.

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  TwiztedYuri  |  9

18 if you're getting bored... either he doesn't know what he's doing or he's just too small. In sex both parties should have an orgasm. You lucky ladies get to have more then one.

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This comment thread makes me sad for all of you who have bad sex. I have a newfound appreciation for my sex life. You know how much it would hurt my pride if I couldn't get my wife off? Maybe that was his problem. He starts thinking about his inadequacy and he can't get off either. Most of it is mental, after all.

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  amisenho  |  11

I second #49's comment. It can take a while, especially if your partner has already had an orgasm at least once within the same day. From experience, men take a little longer after the first orgasm, so if I'm going for longer than, say, 30 minutes, it starts to wear out my muscles, and I start focusing more on the pain than the pleasure. At that point, I have to let my partner know that I'm getting physically tired, and he usually understands.

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  TheMathMajor  |  26

I have an ex who would take forever in bed. I also can't orgasm from penetration. Not even if there's clitoral stimulation in addition to penetration. Usually oral works or I have to do it myself. It pretty much always got to the point where it was numb or painful with my ex and then I couldn't even finish. Not pleasant with a guy who goes too long. There is an optimal middle ground, though I really don't even mind if the guy gets off really quickly because then I can just have him go down on me and we're all good :D there's too much pressure on guys to last long I think, I guess it just depends on the girl's preference and how she gets off.

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  LisaDay  |  14

i love penetration sex. i cant get off on clitorial stimulation though. i guess im the odd one out. penetration does it for me. other stimulation, nope.

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  HylianTwilight  |  21

I'm with 134.... I can't even handle any touch on my clit (I'm extremely sensitive), besides my own. I am a squirter though, so penetration does me better than oral, fingering, or even any sort of foreplay. lol. It makes me sad.

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  TheMathMajor  |  26

Every vulva is different :) I also wish that I could get off from penetration. On the plus side, though, I'm currently dating someone who is veeeery good at oral.

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  Makaze  |  12

There is a point for my wife where I'm 'taking too long' because she can't take anymore O's.

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#23 o couldn't agree me if it takes you more than 5 minutes to get the guy off by doing a blow job you need to try something new just saying

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  garrett_8614  |  14

That's not necessarily true, sometimes even if the sex/blowjob is good, a guy just takes longer. There's no set time for a guy to orgasm, it just happens when it happens. Some take longer than others

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  PerditaDessa  |  38

Throwing out the possibility that she was bored because if you're mature enough to have sex you should be able to communicate. Sex can take too long. If you've found a lad who can go, get up and go again for hours you're bound to get exhausted. There's only so much a girl can take before she has to load up on carbohydrates.

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  gracehi  |  31

It can vary greatly, and taking a long time doesn't necessarily mean she's doing anything wrong. Sometimes he's just not in the right state of mind, distracted, or uncomfortable for some unrelated reason. For example, if he needs to use the bathroom he might not be able yup get off no matter what she does until after he relieves himself.

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  JPManiac  |  7

I have to agree completely #50, I can't finish up when I have to use the restroom or when my mind is distracted by other things (such as hunger or thirst). Literally impossible.

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  ItsAUnicorn  |  27

#50, what you just said is exactly what I meant. Sex is indeed all about communication. I believe that when you don't want to talk about it, then you aren't ready to have sex too. Time isn't related to the quality of the pleasure. I've known some guys who have strong distraction problems, even while receiving oral. They start thinking about all different kinds of stuff and can't focus. oh and #12, that's certainly not the problem ;)

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  LisaDay  |  14

shes either bored (ste up your game OP!) or possibly sore from him taking too long. the motion of him thrusting into her will start to hurt after a short while if she cant stay lubricated. also, depending on the size of her vagina and the size of his penis, he may be hitting her cervix which will get sore if he is hitting it repeatedly.

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  TheMathMajor  |  26

Pain from going too long is common and a lot of women can't get off from penetration so that can make it kind of boring after a while and you start to get numb. Doesn't necessarily have to do with the guys "performance".

By  sayyestothedress  |  24

The first time I saw your pic, I thought it was an eye

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