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By Anonymous - / Monday 17 January 2011 02:43 / United States
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wow! normally I would say ydi for getting a name tattoo but kids are different!! well someone else may be the father but if you raise her properly you can be her dad

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Be happy OP, my dad tells me it was either the beer man or the mail man. But, I go with the mail man because I know he makes a lot of "deliveries."

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No #28 I know who my dad is and he justs likes to mess around with me and say that. It's a joke but I guess you haven't heard of it.

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Well the mail man does always handle with care, as well as being used to handling large packages. I could see why your dad would pick him.

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OP, she's still your daughter no matter what. even if not biologically, you've been with her since she was born... but your wife on the other hand...

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no you can take it even while there still in the womb and stuff but they have to be in like the 3rd trimester or somethin

wow! normally I would say ydi for getting a name tattoo but kids are different!! well someone else may be the father but if you raise her properly you can be her dad

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Yeah the whole cheating thing is more an FML than the tatoo. the tat just makes it more... not ironic but just cruel in general. Bit it's still OP's daughter. I doubt EVEN IF the parents get divorced (not saying they should or shouldn't) I don't think a father of four months is going to just give up his kid because she's the spawn of another man. that's just heartless.

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' I don't think a father of four months is going to just give up his kid because she's the spawn of another man. that's just heartless' But what if the other man wants his kid? What will OP become? Stepdad? No, because it's more than likely he will divorce the mother. So, technically, he will be nothing than the guy who took care of anothers person his kid for four months. OP's wife is heartless. The only thing OP can do is visit the child regularly, but what's the point? The child will remin

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I agree names of significant others are stupid, but the name off what you believe at least is your child isn't. if I child is yours it is your forever and nothing can change that, so op you were in the right. your wife on the other hand was very wrong in what she did and really the several men she did as well. good luck. I fully support men prepared to man up and be a father, we need more men like that, really for all men to be like that before they lay down with a woman.

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Divorce, kick her out of the house/apartment. The kids yours, you've cared and loved it all this time, though I wouldn't fault you for leaving her with the kid, I'd just feel bad for the bastard. Get child support from the mom and if you're not the biological dad, from him too, he fucked your wife.

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I agree with 103, except he shouldn't need his wife's permission to get a tattoo, it's HIS body. granted I don't see why he wouldn't just be like "hey I'm going to get a tattoo of our kid's name".... kind of a weird thing to hide. op - if you love the child and your wife isn't looking for the biological father, no one would blame you for still being there for the kid in which case you would be the dad in all ways but sharing DNA. you should leave your wife though, she's a whore.

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Fuck the tattoo why would you need to make a "decision" together when it's your body. Obviously you didn't make the decision together for her to go smash burger with a grip of dudes. Drop that ho and move on brotha man.

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Why should he have to tell his wife? Its his body, and probably him that works for the money too. OP should leave his wife if the child isnt his. And dont call me heartless. His wife cheated on him.

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I agree with sexy here... sucks you didnt catch her cheating before you married... fuck fuck fuck your life, man o man!!!

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Beating is never acceptable. Cheating isn't either (especially with so many people, on a spouse, etc), but beating doesn't solve anything and is a very serious matter.

It took a tattoo to make her confess that? Honey, it looks like it's time to really rethink the marriage...

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