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By DAMMit - / Monday 27 July 2009 08:12 / Australia
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well yeah he shouldn't be harsh but he didn't ask her to get a tattoo. thats just straight up creepy. he needs to break up with her.

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So even if he was an awful SOB who beat you every night, you wouldn't dump him because he went out and got a tattoo of your guys' names?

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Sorry #91, but that's NOT the answer he needed. If he's going to break up with her, that's that. He shouldn't be condemned to stay with someone he doesn't love just because SHE jumped the gun.

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no, he really needs to dump her. getting a tattoo like that is (a)stupid, and (b)further evidence of how psycho she is. it's her own fault for getting it, he shouldn't stay in a relationship that makes him unhappy just because she made a bad decision.

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Yah....she obviously really likes you. Take that into consideration before breaking her heart. ]:

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Tell her to maake you a sandwhich and get back to the kitchen and do what she was put on this planet for

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I'm sorry for pressing YDI, but twas because even if I feel sorry for you, I feel even more sorry for her. Poor thing. It's like #1 says.. she really loves you.

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i don't think you should brek it off or stay with her. turn into the worst boyfriend you can be overnight(minus any kind of assault, that's not cool) but just be that chauvanistic, mean jerk of a guy, but not in the way chicks like. constantly tell her to cook you something, boss her around, and always tell her that you're the man and that means that you make the descisions. hopefully, that'll be enough to make her break it off with you. then just go back to being the guy you are now, and f

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instead of breaking up with her for being needy he could just ask her to give him some space.

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Break her heart. She's not in love with you. She's obsessed with you. She needs to go see help. You absolutely NEVER get a tattoo of a your boyfriend/girlfriend. Even if you are married. The only time you would get a tattoo of someone's name is if you're BLOOD RELATED.

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My husband got our children's name tattood, but not mine. We got tattoos that were symbolic of each other, but never ever names!!

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It shows she really loves him? I think it mostly shows how needy she is. I like how the story illustrates the OP's reason to dump her. I guess she learned a valuable lesson. Name tattoos are incredibly stupid.

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the chick is stupid and a pyscho for getting a name tattoo. think of it this way. today i got a tattoo of my and my boyfriend's name on it because i thought it would help are relationship that seemed to be weakening. he broke up with me before i could show him. thats a total YDI in my eyes. i feel bad for the dude, the chick is a nut.

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Tattoos are fine, it's the persons choice if they want one or not. It is almost always a bad idea to get a tattoo of a boy/girlfriends name. You never know what's going to happen in the relationship, and like in this story, when it's over you're stuck with it. They're a bitch to get removed, and can be hard to cover, depending. So just don't do it. OP should go ahead and dump her, but try to be as nice as possible about it. It's not his fault she did that and he shouldn't have to stay with her.

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Definitely. Even if they had been married for 20 years, this would be a stupid decision. A whole back tattoo of a BOYFRIEND's name? Did you meet this girl in the psych ward after your breakdown? What a lunatic

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It's at times like these that I'm THRILLED that I'm gay, because there are some wacko girls out there, and fortunately I won't run the risk of ever dating any of them

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On the other hand, some guys are insane too. Just hopefully not in the same way. The insanity of my gender is the primary reason I date straight. Heh.

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No, guys just complain about crazy girls more so they get more coverage. I'm sure there's a nutjob just waiting to collect samples of your hair. :)

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yeah statistically 98% of rape perpetrators are male and I'd say that's just a little more psycho than getting a name tattoo..

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#90 - It's not because guys are more psycho that they rape more, it's because they tend to be physically stronger and more capable of such an attack. #61 - That's awesome. You rule.

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what, you're saying people rape others just because they're strong enough? Bullshit, anyone who would do that definitely has a few screws loose.

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90, did you ever realize that males find it easier to rape, since they're the ones that have to be excited, and not the victim? I mean, if you're a woman, and your victim isn't interested, it's going to be slightly tricky to do a quick rapage. Also, face it, most men are not going to mind being 'raped' by a woman, as long as she's not too ugly or fat or skinny. Why do you think so many female teachers 'rape' their kids? The kid enjoys it and won't tell anyone; yet very few male teachers tr

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115, you clearly don't understand much about rape if you think it's not possible for a female to rape a male. Rape is sex without consent. An erection is not consent, and can be achieved through the use of drugs (not just excitement). I should also point out that your example of female teachers raping their male students not being rape because they secretly want it is incorrect - young men can have erections through fear. Or, as I pointed out before, an erection IS NOT CONSENT. Even if the ma

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Examples of teachers raping students is more often than not classified as statutory rape - as in, having sex with an underage person, even if they were consenting.

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also an erection can happen without the consent of the "higher brain" consent. A body can become excited through kissing and stuff without the PERSON himself wanting to have sex. An a rapist gets off on forcing someone to have sex. It's usually that they are a serial rapist and they just like the aggression and force used in rape, or they want to have sex with a person so badly that they force them to. So yea, women can rape a man just as much as a man can rape a woman. But often times

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#111 - Nooo, I'm saying that men and women may both have the desire to rape in equal amount, but men have the greater ability. Nyabig - you clearly think entirely too much about the subject.

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plus plenty of "rapes" aren't really rapes... one of my friends got accused of raping this girl who -regretted- the one night stand even though she gave consent the whole way through... yeah took a while to sort that out o.O and it happens more often than you'd think

Tell her that you want to design your own tat. Then write on a piece of paper "Your dumped!" and show her your "design"

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I don't think that's love. more like pure unmitigated crazy. RUN! RUN fast don't look back don't feel bad just get the he'll away.

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Agreed. You put yourself in the relationship, you should have known if she was a needy person. YDI.

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Dude. The whole REASON to date someone is to get to know them better. He dated her, and now he knows her really well. It's not his fault she turned out the way she did.

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