Caring and Love: Today, I found out why my wife has been upset with me for the...

By dazedandconfused - 18/09/2016 09:44 - United Kingdom - Dorking

Today, I found out why my wife has been upset with me for the last week. She told me this morning that I did something to upset her on our date night last Friday, she won't tell me what, and she said she'll leave me if I do it again. FML

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By sickandtiredofit - 24/01/2012 19:50 - United States

Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML

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The Reid technique

By Anonymous - 24/10/2022 00:00

Today, I asked my girlfriend if maybe she wanted to actually leave the house for date night. All I got was, “Why? We have takeaway menus.” When I insisted we leave the house for once, she got suspicious, like I was trying to hide something bad. She’s not talking to me until I admit what I did. FML

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Wild mood swings

By Anonymous - 19/09/2022 00:30 - United Kingdom - London

Today, once again, my partner is screaming at me for something that I have done and, as usual, she won't tell what it was, only that, "You know what you did," and, as usual, I have no idea. FML

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Forget me not

By Anonymous - 05/06/2022 15:00 - United States - Gardena

Today, my wife is upset at me for having to remind her of her responsibilities. She dropped the ball several times in the past, and she hates that I remind her to prepare for upcoming deadlines. FML

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By marriedtoacunt - 19/10/2012 18:27 - United Kingdom - London

Today, our kids left for the weekend so that my wife and I could have some much-needed alone time. We've been fighting a lot recently and really need some time to have fun together. Now it turns out that she doesn't want to be around me because of the fighting. FML

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Healthy family dynamic

By Matt - 20/03/2024 19:00 - Australia

Today, my wife screamed and threatened to leave me… again. She does this about once a year, in response to an argument that she feels frustrated by. We have three amazing children and we're mostly happy in between these outbursts. Today she did it in front of our 6 year-old, who is now crying about our family. FML

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By Anonymous - 05/12/2010 08:10 - Canada

Today, my girlfriend and I had an argument. She admitted she didn't know why she was pissed at me, but still is, and now she won't talk to me. FML

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Told you so

By Anonymous - 19/06/2021 22:00

Today, my wife is leaving me for the guy she told me not to worry about, who is also her ex. FML

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By Renderfist - 06/07/2017 18:30

Today, I had to comfort my wife after she found out that her boyfriend wasn't faithful to her. FML

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By anon - 18/07/2019 14:00

Today, my wife and I got into an argument. She ran out, yelling. Later, at work, I felt guilty, so I picked up some flowers and a card. When I presented them to her, she looked puzzled. I made the mistake of reminding her about our argument. She is now mad at me, again. FML

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Sparx1_1 16

Monday 19 September 2016 11:37

There aren't very many things you can to to earn a week of anger and a threat like that - and they'd all be super obvious. At this point, her behaviour is a bigger issue than anything you might have done. A week of anger is way too angry. Claiming that it's worth leaving you over, but not worth actually telling you what it is, is just messed up? That's a pretty abusive way to treat someone.

mathdu73 8

Monday 19 September 2016 11:25

If she can leave you for a reason she doesn't even want to explain, maybe she simply doesn't love you anymore, or not enough for her to care... Or she's simply trying to find a reason to leave you, and either way, she's acting like a child, sorry for you man.

Comments

Soverain 15

Monday 19 September 2016 18:25

For ****'s sake. Why do so many women pull these BS mind games? Is it really too difficult to be an adult and talk things out? Passive aggressive behavior never helps in relationships.

sparkledoge 29

Monday 19 September 2016 18:53

Try to carefully and subtly remind her that communication is essential in a relationship ?

ChildishPerson 13

Monday 19 September 2016 19:31

I'm really sorry but your wife sounds immature. Or at least what she's doing is immature. The most important part in a relationship is communication and of course understanding. Refusing to tell you why she's so angry with you and expecting you to just somehow find out is pretty immature isn't it?

Wishe 17

Monday 19 September 2016 19:37

I absolutely hate women who do this.

duchessinky 11

Monday 19 September 2016 19:45

That is emotional manipulation AT BEST. It sounds like she's either a) already made up her mind to leave and is looking for an excuse or b) attempting to manipulate you into walking on eggshells forever. Y'all need a marriage therapist who can help her figure out a better way to communicate. If she's not willing to do that, then she's just...well, I don't know what she is, but it's not good.

creditless 14

Monday 19 September 2016 20:53

u know what u did, even if u don't know what IT is... don't let IT happen again = female logic

Sparx1_1 16

Monday 19 September 2016 21:41

that's emotional abuser logic and men do that as often as women.

intreker05 5

Monday 19 September 2016 20:59

RUN! But no, in all seriousness, consider meeting with a lawyer and a therapist. The lawyer because, it sounds like she's gearing up to leave you and turn herself into the victim and you need to protect your assets and a therapist because, if you do want to save your relationship, you're going to need it. See if she'll agree to couples counseling. If not, go by yourself to help you through the process. Good luck!