If you don't want him then keep on stepping with your life ,and do what makes you happy. I agree with the doing yourself up so you feel good and go out and have fun . If you do want him then punish and punish him hard . But he's cheating ass isn't worth taking back I would never stay with a cheater ,but some people do take their partner back .

Do little things to annoy her, like not flushing or replacing the bread with moldy bread!

why cant u move on ? u can get sexual diseases from a cheater

**** that hoe! Ask some close friends or move in with your parents for the time being

If I am remembering right, OP can sue either her husband or neighbor (I forget which one) for alienation of affection, I could be wrong though.

Honey you need to do two things #1 rip out his testacles #2 kick his ass out

Aw HELL NAH!

Who says you have to be nice?? I really hope you're not being nice to either of them. I'd make the *****'s live a living hell, then beat the snot out of my former husband. [if you're going to get in trouble for hitting someone, you may as well hit them HARD] You say you can't move? There are women's shelters who can help you get out of there until you get on your feet. Once you're back on your own feet, don't look back.

# 14 yeah make yourself a ***** they will show him

Kick him out of the house. Don't divorce if you still think the relationship can end up being mended. Or if not. Go get a good lawyer and get everything u can from the guy as u divorce. ._. That means the house and his money n etc.