you could always bounce wedding ideas around with her even if you've yet to set the date that way she feels included and you're not having to hear her complain.

She shouldn't be involved at all, it's your decision and your fiancé's decision, and she needs to get over it

At least she didn't call you retarded when she first heard you were engaged. When I showed my ring to my Grandma the first words out of her mouth where "You're retarded, but it's a pretty ring" now she says "you're being stupid/retarded but when is it going to happen? Well why haven't you set a date yet? You're going to be engaged for at least a year?!?!? Well that's stupid, why would you do something like that?"

wow tht sounds just like my aunt! ...O_o

I sympathise. Just try to think of it as enthusiasm ...

Mother in laws..arghh!

If you really want to blow her mind, tell her you're already married and five months pregnant.

Reminds me of my engagement three years ago

Good luck with her!

Hes not worth a lifetime of that! break it off while you can still get away from your soon to be in-laws!!