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By  nzhx

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Maybe he was just trying to show her how he likes it done. There is a world of difference between giving head and giving a good blow job. Sadly many women fall in the former category. The same is true for men attempting to "eat" (for lack of a better word) women. It takes time and communication both ways to learn how please each other.

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I beg to differ on the whole a girl knows what another girl wants thing. 1.) unless you do it frequently you probably aren't very good 2.) all girls are different

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Yes rylcrazy, you are partially gay if you are bisexual. You are 100% correct, which is why #2's comment is correct.

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Well no, that's just silly. You're either gay or bisexual. There's no such thing as being 'partly,' gay. Homosexuality is an absolute, as is heterosexuality. Being bisexual simply means you enjoy sex with both men and women, not that you're 'partly,' gay...

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Sorry, this is going to be long, I apologize ahead of time. The only reason why most threesomes ruin relationships is because there are circumstances that those individuals didn't meet. Many people believe they can handle it or are ready for it, but aren't yet there. If you don't have a healthy and communicative relationship with your primary partner then you should not attempt having a threesome. If you're intentions are to simply please your partner then you're going to have a bad time. A

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i agree with #106. im a jealous guy. and i cant stand the thought of my fiance pleasuring another guy right in front of me. but other people enjoy seeing stuff like that. its all about preference

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#4 Or maybe OP'S boyfriend has never had an experience with a man and is now finding that he enjoys it? Not everyone is completely sure about their sexual preference, he could be confused.

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You must not watch porn. Could be two straight guys taking her at the same time in different ways. It was perfectly reasonable to assume that.

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But it's unreasonable for her to rule out other possibilities, so she shouldn't have been blindsided when he did so.

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No it's not. I've had threesomes with a dud and a woman. Every single time whether there would be any MM interaction was discussed prior. That's what adults do.

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Well by the tone of OP's post, it seems that it was more than just spreading the love and the boyfriend was more enthusiastic about the other guy.

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he could have previous experience with it and just be bisexual (cos yknow... it is a thing) and be dating you now? I don't see what the big deal is

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Then it was extremely stupid of her to organize a threesome with two guys, especially without stating what she wanted.

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No Homophobia is by definition being scared of same sex relationships of a sexual nature It's like saying I don't like chocolate ice cream You can support the fact that chocolate ice cream is loved by millions of people But that doesn't mean that you're going to eat it when someone gives it to you

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Please explain why it's homophobia. Is a gay man a misogynist because he's turned off by a woman's body? If I'm turned off by anyone's body, does that automatically mean I hate that person? Kindly get off your high horse and think logically for a moment. If you believe that homosexuals can't help what turns them on or off, then that logic should apply to me too. And as for what she should have expected, if she didn't know her boyfriend was bisexual before, how could she have possibly expected h

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I agree with 39. You don't always know how a person will react in a sexual situation. Her bf could be straight as a board but got caught up in the experience and gave another guy a BJ. It would be a very shocking sight to see someone who you think is straight perform an act like that on someone of the same sex. also I'm not sure if OP thought it was a big deal but just that it was the only moment that was anything to remember. I know if I thought of doing something like that it would certainly

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#33 Your comment pisses me off. I would find it a huge turn off too if I watched my boyfriend make out with another guy. And I was VP in my high schools Gay Straight Alliance club for two years and I have two Gay family members. So im obviously not homophobic. Lots of people have different turn ons and turn offs, that doesn't make them homophobic or prejudice against the LGBTQ community.

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As much as you guys might disagree, I feel that in a threesome where there are two straight guys, the girl is the only centre of common sexual interaction. No straight guy would suck another's dick simply because they are having a threesome in my opinion. And as for the possibility of bisexuality, OP is entitled to be shocked if she just found out.

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True, she's entitled to be shocked by her bf being bi, and while "no straight guy" would suck a dick, the whole straight/bi/gay et al thing is a wide spectrum, and it's a matter of where you fall within that. No one label can accurately describe most people. I fall into the bi area, but know I would never date a guy simply because that's not what I find attractive about the same sex. Rather, I just like the sexual aspects of being with another guy, whereas some other bi identifying pe

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It's not exactly a far-stretch to think that dudes are better at giving blowjobs than girls. Guys know what guys like just like girls know what girls like. Women know where most of a woman's buttons are. The same can be said about men.

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Perhaps the FML here is not that her boyfriend gives a good blowjob. Perhaps the FML is that the threesome was not really fun for her. If her only lasting impression about was with regards to her boyfriends blowjob giving ability it is unlikely that she got to orgasm at all, let alone had a GOOD orgasm. Think about it realistically, how lost in the throws of ecstasy could she have been if she had the cognitive ability to take into account how good her boyfriend is at blowing someone else?

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