Thoughts and prayers

By Anonymous - 03/12/2023 18:00 - United States - Dillingham

Today, I don't know what to do to be a good husband. In my wife's eyes, I can’t do anything right. I asked to have more quality time with her but she would rather play video games than spending time with me. I don’t know what to do. FML
I agree, your life sucks 558
You deserved it 112

Same thing different taste

Top comments

ODBeefalo 10

have you tried playing those games with her? Also if someone is that far gone, good chance they are suffering from depression. probably not even your fault, but play some games with her and see if you can figure out the issue, and maybe go to therapy together?

Nico97 3

assuming you’re not failing in some significant way or are unaware of what’s going on due to her passive aggressive attitude and crappy behavior, give her a choice. work through or leave and be someone else’s problem. life is too short to waste it on rotten people

Comments

EricW 4

the solution is simple : find another partner

ODBeefalo 10

have you tried playing those games with her? Also if someone is that far gone, good chance they are suffering from depression. probably not even your fault, but play some games with her and see if you can figure out the issue, and maybe go to therapy together?

Nico97 3

assuming you’re not failing in some significant way or are unaware of what’s going on due to her passive aggressive attitude and crappy behavior, give her a choice. work through or leave and be someone else’s problem. life is too short to waste it on rotten people

SylvarLorali 4

Darling, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Your wife should be ashamed of herself and you 100% deserve to be treated better! you have the right to be treated with love, affection and have time spent on you and her shitty and selfish behavior is not your fault. I hope you are okay. x

OOOF! Sounds like your wife is mining dopamine. This could very well be a neurodivergent thing, which might require a different tact.

Maybe try couples counseling. The longer you wait the harder it will be to change the behavior.