Honestly, you should be happy she said that and didn't smack you and kick your balls. SHE LOVES YOU, YOU ******* DUMMY. She's putting in effort to salvage and maintain the marriage. You don't deserve her but you better comply. **** your wife's life. Do not cheat on her (you technically already did emotionally) Stop talking to that co worker Show effort and participate in what should be a team effort. DO NOT BLOW IT. Most women would ditch an asshole such as yourself.

Let me ask you something: If the girl at work didn't want to date you, would you still leave your wife? Because that could happen. Or you could start dating her and then for some reason that doesn't work out. Remember that most people are like secondhand cars: They look best from 20 feet away. Same with her. Some say that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I say the grass is green where you water it . So, really give the therapy a chance. That way at least if you leave, you do it for the right reasons.