Love: Red flag

Red flag

By Anonymous - 15/01/2014 18:25 - Italy - Pistoia

Today, I found out that the generous gift from my boyfriend of a new iPhone was only given so he could use the "Find my phone" function to make sure I'm always where I say I am each day. I'm being stalked by my own boyfriend. FML

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You deserved it 8 942

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By jflac - 24/12/2014 12:03 - Australia - Brisbane

Today, I found out the person who's been stalking and harassing me online was actually my now ex-boyfriend. He only confessed as I finally picked up the phone to report it to the police. He basically said he wanted me to turn to him for comfort and protection, so he could "feel like a man". FML

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By f'ed_over - 19/01/2009 11:12 - United States

Today, I found out my boyfriend's mom tried to bribe him with an iPhone to dump me. He accepted. FML

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You deserved it 2 466

By Anonymous - 26/11/2010 13:15 - United Kingdom

Today, I found out my stalker is my mom's new boyfriend. FML

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You deserved it 3 063

By alissa_roar - 18/04/2011 17:54 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of two years told me I was being too obsessive. This is the guy who has gone through my phone two separate times and deleted all of my male contacts. FML

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By Anonymous - 09/04/2019 12:00

Today, I found out that the threatening and insulting messages I received from my boyfriend's "stalker ex" were actually sent by him. Why? Because he cheated and he didn't want to admit it. I'm dating a psycho. FML

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You deserved it 231

By nolife - 05/11/2010 23:14 - United States

Today, my stalker - an annoying guy who's dedicated the past three years of his life to stalking me at every turn - somehow got a hold of my number and started texting me at 10pm about how I have no life. FML

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Expensive hobby

By astalkerindeed - 16/05/2013 04:31 - United States - Pasadena

Today, I found out that my cell phone bill was much higher than normal. After investigating, I realized that a text conversation I had with my stalker, telling him multiple times not to contact me anymore, was to an international cell phone. I have to pay to be stalked. FML

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You deserved it 6 471

By Kiki - 08/03/2013 21:22 - Poland - Myslenice

Today, my boyfriend came over and dropped off my phone, which I'd left at his place the night before. He immediately left in a sulk. As I looked through my texts, I discovered he was only so moody because I hadn't answered any of his calls or messages. I'm dating an idiot. FML

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You deserved it 5 578

By Hopeless - 08/02/2011 03:22

Today, I found out the real reason why me and my boyfriend of four and a half months have "so much in common". He used to be my stalker, who followed me around in a black hoodie and always posted stuff on my Myspace as an anonymous person. FML

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By Anonymous - 01/01/2014 07:49 - Australia - Southport

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me via text message. Every 20 minutes or so, I'll get a notification that I have a new message, and I check it just to find that same message sitting there. I'm being trolled by my own phone. FML

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yoshithecat 15

Wednesday 15 January 2014 21:32

Be cautious, as my ex tried that same thing on me. His reasoning for it turned out to be because he was cheating on me, and wanted to make sure I wasn't doing the same! (I wasn't) Enjoy though!

jnanderson 16

Wednesday 15 January 2014 21:32

My parents do this. It sucks. Just turn off location services.

Comments

TyrannosaurusRex 5

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:18

that's, unhealthy. my advice? run.

buttcramp 21

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:19

you have a few options here.. either never lie to him, get a new phone/your own plan, or break up.

Ins0mau 20

Thursday 16 January 2014 0:49

Or, I dunno... Just try to TALK to him and work through his trust issues.

buttcramp 21

Thursday 16 January 2014 4:22

figured that was a given with "never lie."

EvilLittleMan 23

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:21

Run as fast as you can from Mr. Insecure.

MzNViziBLe 8

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:23

OP just turn it off. Settings> iCloud> Find My Phone slide it to off. Problem solved now just don't f up and loose your phone. ☺️

SuperStormCindy 8

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:28

That's a red flag. Dump him, OP.

Cyrren 22

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:28

Me too except my boyfriend uses Life360. Go in to the settings and turn off the location services

NutellaPrincess 9

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:29

Sorry op go to settings and turn it off and break it off with him

Xotoolyxo 16

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:29

"Accidentally" leave the phone somewhere...get your own

TheMathMajor 26

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:30

If she did he still doesn't have any right to invade her privacy like that. The right thing to do would have been to talk to her about it or possibly break up with her if he's having trust issues.

foxy_grampa 19

Wednesday 15 January 2014 22:31

He's controlling and possessive. You should end this because it's already incredibly unhealthy. Us he doesn't trust you, why else would he use the app to make sure you are where you say you are? He should just believe you