Kids, AITA and Grandparents: Entitled much?

Entitled much?

By grandpa - 27/11/2023 05:00

Today, despite being the first to hold all my other grandchildren, despite my son and bitch of a daughter-in-law agreeing I would be the first, I showed up at the hospital to see my daughter-in-law's father holding my grandchild before me. FML

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By Lennyr - 28/08/2016 06:36 - United States - Union City

Today, I gave birth to my first born child. Somehow, my mom and mother in law made their way to the delivery room, and walked in mid-push. While they were escorted out, I overheard my mother in law asking the nurse how her son, my husband, was holding up. FML

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You're so vain, you probably think this FML is about you

By Anonymous - 02/07/2020 20:06

Today, my daughter is so selfish, she did her makeup in her hospital room so she could take a selfie with her newborn son in the background BEFORE she had even held him for the first time. Yes, BEFORE. My grandson spent his first hour of life waiting for his mom to be ready for a photo op. FML

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Kinda cruel, son

By Anonymous - 15/05/2023 10:00

Today, my son had a child to spite his ex and ex-stepson. He was holding his daughter in his arms in the delivery room when he told me that now I can stop visiting his ex-stepson and pretending he’s my real grandchild, because now I have a real granddaughter. I’m speechless. FML

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Favoritism

By Anonymous - 01/03/2021 05:01

Today, I overheard my mother-in-law say to her daughter "I can't wait for you to make me a real grandma." I'm pregnant with their first grandchild. FML

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Grandma's here!

By Anonymous - 29/10/2021 14:00

Today, my mother-in-law was so rabid to meet her first grandson, she didn’t just nudge me aside to get to the delivery room, she two-hand shoved me in the chest so I flew backwards and down a flight of stairs. I’m now in a neck brace for a hairline crack to my vertebrae and can’t pick up my own son. FML

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Succession

By Greatgrandpa - 30/11/2014 17:29 - Curacao

Today, my only child introduced his new girlfriend to me. He is 36 and has no children. She is 46 and has a pregnant daughter who she is very close with. I don't know if I'll ever be a grandfather, but in any case, my son is going to be one before me. FML

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My turn

By Crazy In-Laws - 20/11/2016 22:54 - United States - Danvers

Today, my wife and I both got released from the hospital. She was admitted for the birth of our daughter. I was admitted with a broken arm from when my mother-in-law shoved me out of the way because she wanted to be the first one to hold the baby after my wife. FML

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By Anonymous - 25/06/2019 22:14

Today, my mother-in-law told me to "just wait" until she gets home from her trip, because apparently, taking a vacation with her partner is more important than the birth of her first grandchild. Contractions started a few hours ago. Part of me hopes she misses it. FML

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By Anonymous - 14/02/2015 02:43 - United States - Titusville

Today, I gave birth to a baby girl. Where was my husband after the agony finally ended? Standing just outside the room, flirting with a nurse. FML

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By Anonymous - 23/01/2011 07:21 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital to visit my aunt and her newborn baby. The receptionist gave me the room number, and I went and my aunt was in the bathroom so I cuddle the baby, only to find that the woman who came out of the bathroom was a complete stranger. I was holding her baby. FML

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coolrunnings1021 14

Monday 27 November 2023 6:23

Well dont you sound fun...get over yourself!!!

mike3775 35

Monday 27 November 2023 5:30

Why are you the first to hold the grandchild? The first should be the father, not the grandparent

Comments

snubbo1313 1

Monday 27 November 2023 5:09

it matters why? why should you get priority over another grandparent who has the same rank as you? also, you’re a grandparent, aren’t you little old to be on fml?

idragosani 14

Tuesday 28 November 2023 5:05

Kind of an ageist comment. I'm old enough to be a grandfather and I'm on here daily

n3rdn3ss 8

Tuesday 28 November 2023 5:52

Down vote for being such a huge d****e bag. OP probably has way better social skills than you will ever accomplish, besides that, I will say that OP needs to chill about being the first for every grand child.

mike3775 35

Monday 27 November 2023 5:30

Why are you the first to hold the grandchild? The first should be the father, not the grandparent

Gubbon 17

Monday 27 November 2023 5:30

... and?

coolrunnings1021 14

Monday 27 November 2023 6:23

Well dont you sound fun...get over yourself!!!

dragonladiesfire 19

Monday 27 November 2023 6:27

Are you going to love this grandchild less because you weren't the first to hold them? Honestly, the important part is that you are there and they're allowing you to be a part of a personal event that's happening to them.

Hangryko 29

Monday 27 November 2023 6:38

Oh, take off, nobody cares. You sound absolutely ghastly. I hope your son cuts you off from his family.

TwoBytesCarley 26

Monday 27 November 2023 7:11

I second this. How awful to have a parent, who is now a grandparent, be so utterly petty and calls your spouse a bitch for such a meaningless slight.

SylvarLorali 4

Monday 27 November 2023 8:27

The way you speak about your daughter in-law is disgusting, and you should be ashamed of yourself. It doesn't matter how you feel about her, she is the mother of your grandchild so grow up and have some damn respect. I'm very surprised they let you near them at all.

Razath 17

Monday 27 November 2023 10:29

Well, aren't you a crotchety old coot? Get over yourself.

TomeDr 24

Monday 27 November 2023 11:59

I witnessed the birth of my first two grandchildren but, because of unfortunate timing, I missed the birth of the third. Want to know what difference it made? None. I love him just like his older siblings. The only reason you’re upset is because you’re selfish. Do better.

D J's MOM 17

Monday 27 November 2023 12:22

you sound very very entitled, it's not becoming of you at all. they probably said you could just to shut you up. they are the parents not you. you don't get to dictate the situation. get off your high horse and just be happy for them and the new bundle of joy.