Asshat

By Vivi - 14/07/2021 18:01

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Today, my soon-to-be-ex-husband decided to bring our four kids over to tell them we were splitting up, and to make them choose who they want to live with, because, "Mommy’s been a nagging bitch." He left out that the "nagging bitch" caught him having an affair the night before. FML
I agree, your life sucks 2 235
You deserved it 182

Same thing different taste

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Did you happen to bring it up right after, or did he vehemently deny it?

make sure you document everything he says especially in front of the children the courts are going to love hearing about that

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Did you happen to bring it up right after, or did he vehemently deny it?

Wadlaen 23

Well, then I really think you should inform them! They deserve, and need, to know.

make sure you document everything he says especially in front of the children the courts are going to love hearing about that

huh, I have a sneaking suspicion daddy wont have the luxury of choosing his custody schedule after Mr legal system gets involved, especially if he keeps acting like this.

I sense there’s a lot of anger on both sides. He’s a sleazy bastard for cheating regardless, but I wonder if your relationship was already in the toilet before he started cheating, and if you really were too nagging and he was probably toxic or disconnected long before. Seems likely. Doesn’t justify cheating though.

mccuish 25

What were the kids decisions?

Yummi_913 18

Wouldn't this be considered a form of parental alienation?

Glitterbaby2613 20

what a narcissist, I would make sure to tell th kids that you caught him cheating.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Don't react in front of the kids. They'll figure it out faster than you think. <3