Today, while grieving over the loss of my Grandpa, I called my girlfriend for comfort. After I had cheered up, she said, "Don't worry, he went to Hell anyway." FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, after mourning and making my girlfriend cancel her big birthday party, I found out my grandma didn't actually die. FML
Today, after holing myself up in my room for the day, I eventually turned my phone back on and told my girlfriend that my grandma passed away today. She replied, "Ask me if I fucking care," then accused me of not caring about our relationship because I went offline all day. FML
Today, I called my boyfriend to have a shoulder to cry on because my grandpa died. As soon as I told him, he started crying and telling me how much he missed his grandmother, who died six years ago. I spent the majority of the phone call listening to him wail. FML
Today, my grandpa died. I called my grandma to make sure she was going to be fine. After talking over the phone for 30 minutes or so, I told her goodbye and said, out of habit, "Say hi to grandpa for me". FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me at my grandma's funeral. FML
Today, my boyfriend said he couldn't come to my grandfather's funeral because he was at his cottage and couldn't make it. Later that day, when driving home from the graveyard I saw him walking down the street, with another girl. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I didn't call her in the last few days. I tried to explain to her that I was out at my grandfather's house in a remote place with no cell service to stand by him on his death bed. She thought I was making excuses and called me a lying bastard. FML
Today, I found out my grandmother passed away. When I told my boyfriend I began to cry. Instead of caring, he said "you're getting my bed wet," rolled over, and fell asleep. FML
Today, I had to send a picture of my Grandma at her funeral to my girlfriend, because she thought I was out cheating on her. FML
Today, I poured my heart out to my now ex-girlfriend over the recent passing away of my grandmother. Her eyes glazed over multiple times, and when I said that I don't know how to cope with everything, her advice was simply, "Shotgun. Mouth. Blam." FML
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Pleonasm 36
That's awful. Some people don't know what to say when others are in pain, maybe, or maybe it was a joke you didn't quite catch and was at an unfortunate time. If she really is being so disrespectful to your grandfather and so careless about your grief, confront her about it. It's not the kind of thing you can just let slide in a relationship.
laurenlovesjb 20
what possibly made her think that would comfort you... Unless she thinks you're going to hell too?
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laurenlovesjb 20
what possibly made her think that would comfort you... Unless she thinks you're going to hell too?
brammerderambam 8
She's a bitch?
Ambient25 25
I hope he dumped the bitch.
lilhellian 27
Maybe she wasn't thinking and said what she honestly felt. For all y'all know, he could've deserved to go to hell.
fareith 15
Well I guess we know where she is going.....
ThatGuyWhoTalks 10
One can't simply go to hell if it doesn't exist
Finn_the_human 5
Why would you go to that for comfort? Also why would you be dating that?
Pleonasm 36
That's awful. Some people don't know what to say when others are in pain, maybe, or maybe it was a joke you didn't quite catch and was at an unfortunate time. If she really is being so disrespectful to your grandfather and so careless about your grief, confront her about it. It's not the kind of thing you can just let slide in a relationship.
Catkam623 27
Relationship advice, from pleo? I was expecting something punny instead.
Pleonasm 36
I am a Guru in many fields!
grahmagog 14
Sometimes people are just too inconciderate because perhaps they havent experienced a loss themselves
Danielle7994 18
She just doesn't know when - or how - to show compassion. If my boyfriend happened to lose someone close to him (thankfully he hasn't!), the first thing I would do is support, comfort, and help him cope with his loss. She unfortunately lacks that ability, which could ultimately end that relationship :( Op I'm so sorry for your loss. That was really insensitive of her to say. You should definately talk to her and see why in the hell she thought that would help ease your pain
golden_warrior 23
damn, your girl friend is a bitch or your Grandpa did something to her. Also, I'm sorry for your loss and may your grandpa rest in peace
jess1987 17
regardless of if grandpa did something to her or not, it does not excuse her lack of sympathy. no one should speak ill of the dead.
jess1987 17
I just lost my mother... I had to deal with her mom, her aunt and someone who was supposedly her best friend calling me on the day of her service asking for her belongings. I am sorry but this hit my heart in a bad way. no one should have to deal with such idiotic, rude people. and I'm sure his grandpa did nothing to the extent that hitler did.
Vidrill 22
That really depends on her tone... I mean I personally believe all the rockstars will be in Hell, so maybe she meant, "Don't worry, he's with the cool sinners, rocking out in the lake of fire."Since you had cheered up a little, maybe she was going for the inconsiderate joke.
fsomelife 26
Sorry for your loss, OP. May your grandfather rest in peace.
anonymousguy1569_fml_fml 8
I'd prefer to go to hell than be in Heaven surrounded by people saying I told you so :P
shyeahh_fml 19
Good thing neither actually exist, although I am a bit bummed that we won't be able to tell the militant Christians, "I told you so."
kittenmeownyan 18
Sorry for your loss op but why on earth would your girlfriend say that?
gurly98 13
Use your brain dumb **** and read the FML.
LolFMLnot 10
55 In the FML it doesn't say why she said that. Maybe you should stop being rude and calling people names
xALEXx_fml 15
That's harsh. Dumb bitch
Pinkykay2000 12
That was really rude of her. She's a bitch and you shouldn't have to deal with that. Sorry about your grandfather.