Today, my wife is treating me like I'm the devil, all because I refused to go on medication that would kill my sex drive, just so she wouldn't have to deal with me actually wanting to make love more than once a year. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my wife told me she had stopped taking her anti-depressants a month ago in hopes of increasing her non-existent sex drive. I asked her if it had helped, and was about to suggest she start taking them again for her own wellbeing. She replied with, "Anyway, I'm just not attracted to you." FML
Today, my wife always told me she loved sex too much to ever give it up. I don’t know what’s happened recently but she’s now angry for no reason, bitter at the world, makes me suffer just for existing, and yes, she’s cancelled all intimacy and sex for the foreseeable future. FML
Today, my wife asked why I was so grumpy. I admitted that I was horny and sexually frustrated. She went on an hour long tirade about how I "shouldn't need sex to not be a jerk" and how I need to handle my own needs. FML
Today, my wife flat out refuses to have sex with me, ever. Most days it's "What have you done to earn sex?" then when I point out all I do (pay bills, work hard, take care of her, the kids and the house) it's, "Oh, so that means I owe you sex?" I even got that excuse on my birthday. FML
Today, my wife accused me of using her for sex. I'd only just admitted to her two days ago that I've been struggling to get it up to try and perform, after a hospital stay and a month of almost no sexual contact. FML
Today, I was told I should try treating my wife the way she treats me when I seek out her affection, so she can see how bad it hurts. Not only could I never do that to her, but that would require her attempting to show me even the simplest form of affection. FML
Today, I felt so rejected by my wife that I can't help myself but feel like shit. She has bipolar, is on medication, yet she makes me feel so little that emotionally and physically that I've started to feel like a failure. No intimacy, shitty behaviour, complaining all the time. Man, I wish I could end it all. FML
Today, I tried to talk to my wife about our lack of sex lately. Apparently, her therapist told her that her high libido and eagerness to experiment came from her early childhood issues, so now she's working through her trauma and will never want sex again. FML
Today, my wife screamed at me, calling me a "useless, ungrateful piece of crap", all because I wouldn't have sex with her, despite hours of her nagging. I said no because I've been laid-up in bed for the past week waiting on surgery for an excruciatingly painful hernia. FML
Today, after close to 10 years of marriage, my wife’s health has improved enough she is craving sex again. Just not with me. FML
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Wizardo 34
That's make you a libido and her a libidont.
alitairi 18
or it'll piss her off and make her reduce her sexual output to once every 3 years
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Comments (118)
cowduck7 11
Nut on her?
igg125 30
Not worth it, just divorce her.
Mathalamus 25
at this point, i would not bother with communication, and bluntly overrule her wishes that have a negative impact on me. if that makes me a "bad husband" i dont give a shit. just one more bad Mattie Title. i got loads already.
trucker2 33
Could be possible his wife has had a hysterectomy- it either completely kills your sex drive, or puts it through the roof... Best wishes either way..
catherinecas 30
If she's going through menopause that can kill a woman's sex drive. Or depression or anxiety. Or maybe she's just not a person who enjoys or needs sex very often.
Gardevoir2 11
A few years ago, I had the lowest sex drive you can imagine, I thought I was asexual, I never wanted to make love. Sex gave me anxiety, as I was afraid to lose my bf. Then I stopped hormonal contraception, thay I had started taking before knowing myself, and I discovered what a libido is! So maybe she should stop that crap as well if she takes it, because it really changed my life for the best.
Benderama 8
Sorry but that's a deal breaker, once a year is unacceptable, hell once a month is unacceptable
arilsanders 13
Wow
graphite01 15
This is so ****** up that it sounds like it belongs in a Ray Bradbury novel, not real life.
heyLaddieHey 18
You're positive it's sex? I know antidepressants have that effect, and maybe she's upset you won't take meds for your mental health...?
unapologetic 8
Pretty far reach.