Today, my mom found out that I've been having counselling behind her back for the past 4 years. I broke down in tears explaining everything. Her response was, "So you go and bitch about me behind my back?!" And she wonders why I'm depressed. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out the reason my mom took over 9 months to get me a therapist and much needed help after I told her how I had been depressed and suicidal for over two months. It wasn't because it was hard to find one, but actually because she thought I was making it up to cushion the fact that I got a C in a class. FML
Today, my mother is upset that I won’t share things with her anymore. This is the woman who spent my entire childhood gossiping about every teeny tiny detail of my life, and used my suicide attempt as a way to garner pity for herself. Yeah, no thanks. FML
Today, I finally convinced my mum to take me to a psychologist. As soon as he sat me down and asked me how I was doing, my mum burst into tears and went on a rant about how her life is terrible and she regrets everything. I was asked to sit in the waiting room. She used up my whole hour. FML
Today, and for the past year, I've been struggling with depression because of family life. I've been talking to my mom for the past weeks, telling her things that happen when she isn't home as a way to build trust. I finally told her I have depression and have had had it for a long time. She laughed. FML
Today, my mother snapped and took her frustrations out on me. Whenever she has a problem with other family members, it falls on me because she can't show them her true face to them. And she wonders why I hide away all the time… FML
Today, my mom found out I’m in therapy and took it as an insult, like therapy was a criticism of her parenting. Um, maybe if she hadn’t spent my childhood telling me and everyone in our family that having me was an accident, that I’ve been a huge burden, and that she should have aborted me. FML
Today, I was invited to a counseling group for people with emotional problems. I brought the permission slip home for my mom to sign, only for her to accuse me of being a hypochondriacal, lazy, selfish bitch. And my friends wonder why I have problems. FML
Today, I found out that my husband, who I've just separated from, and my mother, who I don't speak to because she's crazy, have been bitching about me behind my back. FML
Today, my mother told me to 'quit having a pity party'. I was just diagnosed with depression. I've lost my boyfriend, my job, my academic standing, and I just got rejected from every graduate school I applied for. And my mother thinks I'm a cry baby. Great. FML
Today, my mom sent me to a counselor she knew "through the church" so that I could get some stressors off my chest. Worst idea ever. This "counselor" invalidated everything I had to say and basically told me to pray the issues away, all while completely ignoring me. FML
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wastedpenguin 14
The point of counciling is penting and getting better, she should be happy for you..
haiku575 22
That's so horrible. Your mom needs to realise that you need to get yourself better so that you are able to deal with her bull.
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pastel_fml 18
To be honest, I'm currently getting counseling behind my mothers back too. But I'm moving out in August as well, so hopefully the day will never come when she finds out. I'm sorry she makes you feel the way she does, but I hope you find the strength one day to resist her and to move forward with your life.
Hiimhaileypotter 53
Even if your mother does find out, ignore her. (Easier said than done, trust me, I know). But it's YOUR life and I believe that everyone could benefit from a bit of counseling, honestly. Everyone has things they could use help on figuring out. Good for you for getting help and I hope everything works out for you. :)
bieebslover11 12
story of my ******* life
itsme82 18
I know what it's like having a mother like this. I'm so sorry things didn't go better op. Hopefully after she calms down some she will be more understanding. I hope you can overcome your depression soon.
mkcherry 14
Don't let this discourage you from attending counseling. Your mental health is more important than your unsupportive mother. You have no choice what parents you're born to but you can decide how to live your life.
Zombinosh77 11
Hmmm, sounds familiar. Try not to let it get to you OP.
jodyl1 5
Mom here is using the guilt trip manipulation method of parenting. I say move out as soon as you can.
worldclassrager 41
Still good for you going to counseling and it doesn't mean (as she said) bitch about her during sessions
BigBootyBenches 13
Your mom sounds like a great, honorable, nice woman.
rachh1094 6
stay strong! I been through the sane thing it's not fun. it takes awhile to notice when you need the help. keep your head up .Things will get better
rogerover 19
She sounds like a realMotherfuc£er!!!