Today, my husband was arrested on 2 felony charges in a sting. We've been married 5.5 years, had almost enough money for a down payment on a house, were trying to get pregnant, and had a non-refundable trip to London planned. We are now broke and on the verge of divorce. FML
Collection
Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Walk on the wild side
Today, I had to go get my fiancé's car so it wouldn't get impounded after he was arrested at 12 a.m. and charged with a felony. I just got out of prison in March, and we get married next week. FML
Secrecy
Today, I found out my husband of one year has been renting his old batchelor's apartment in secret, because he is unsure if he wants to stay married to me, and we are broke. FML
Today, my husband fell for an online scam leaving us 1450.00 in the negative. We get paid tomorrow and most of our money is going to cover that debt. FML
Today, my engagement ring was seized by the police, and my fiancé was arrested on larceny charges. Both in the same visit. FML
Today, I got married to the man I love even though my whole family told me not to marry him. He got into a drunken fight at our wedding and is now in jail. He apparently won't be getting out any time soon due to charges I didn't know about. FML
Today, I found out I'm pregnant. My husband and I are divorcing because HE had an affair. He now wants a paternity test. FML
Shady dealings
Today, I found out that my husband booked one-way tickets for our family to another country, without any return flights or even a place to stay, or money to navigate anything. We're living with my income, and I’m not sure if I want a divorce or a protective order against him. FML
Partnership ended
Today, we had a visit from the bailiffs and police. It turns out my partner has been lying about paying his half of the bills and destroying letters about it. Now I have to find an extra £3k during a cost of living crisis and attend court. This is on top of bailiffs forcefully entering and taking most of our things. FML
Today, my husband told me that he can't find his passport. We're supposed to be leaving for Prague in two days. He's known about the trip for months. It was the anniversary vacation that was going to help our frayed relationship. Now my money is going to a hotel in Prague, but I'm not. FML
Red flag?
Today, my parents informed that the man I'm going to marry had made it into the newspaper, on page twelve. He is listed as a fugitive and there is a warrant out for his arrest. FML
Top comments
whiskey'swino 15
On the plus side- You had money saved to hire a lawyer. You are not pregnant. You can have an awesome trip to London by yourself or with someone else. It sucks right now but at least you have resources and you will come out of this unscathed. Him though, he sounds like he screwed himself.
interesting33 37
I am so sorry. to be most, can I ask what he was charged with?
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interesting33 37
I am so sorry. to be most, can I ask what he was charged with?
jkjorn 18
You and Skyler need to start a support group.
Chewy1 18
Going with YDI. 5 years and no clue he was up to no good?
JasonThorn 23
People have been able to lie to their spouses about their actions, and successfully, for MILLENNIA. So assume it is possible for a criminal to be dishonest, even EXCEPTIONALLY dishonest, to those who could say things in a court of law that could put them away for a very long time.
The_candyman 13
so you're playing the been married to him for five and a half years and had no idea that he was doing anything wrong. Then you're mad when he gets caught.
whiskey'swino 15
On the plus side- You had money saved to hire a lawyer. You are not pregnant. You can have an awesome trip to London by yourself or with someone else. It sucks right now but at least you have resources and you will come out of this unscathed. Him though, he sounds like he screwed himself.
Charlie Given 28
Wow time for a great lawyer and sorry for ya OP and I know exactly how you feel I was deceived by my spouse for 15yrs , don't stay with him liers like that only get better at deception🤔🙄😵😤😒
chosha_fml 27
Kinda makes me wonder if the money for the down payment and trip was all gotten legally. If you didn’t know about his criminal activities, OP, FYL, but I’m glad you didn’t have a kid with him before you found out.