How old IS your husband's daughter?

Let's say that, theoretically, the husband is not creepy old. The formula for the maximum difference in age without it being creepy is age/2+7. So, the oldest the husband could be without it being creepy is 32. If we assume that they JUST got married, and dated for more than a few weeks before getting married, I'd say the OP was probably 22 when they met, and the husband could've been 30 at most without it being creepy. So if the husband is now 31, then either he had his daughter at 15 and his daughter is 15 now, or maybe he was 16 and she's 14, or some other combination. Or he's a creepy old dude who marries younger women. Either way, YDI for either marrying an old guy, or for marrying a guy who had a kid when he was a teenager. You picked a classy guy, and so you get a guy with an obviously classy daughter. YDI.

thats what you get for ruining your life by getting married so young, and for marrying an old ass man! FOOL

I don't see what you're complaining about. You just became the best gilf ever

Ok i just don't get how you people can say she deserved it. So she obviously married an older man with a (most likely) teen aged step-daughter but honestly, you cant help who you fall for. Haven't you heard "age is but a number"?? and yes it sucks you now are a step-grandma but its not really an fml

*****. You and your-stepdaughter. Well, at least you have something in common.

so, we can guess that you're closer to your step-daughter in age than your husband, and there's a good chance that you'll also be closer to your step-granddaughter in age. hahaha

you know what? **** you's. yes, i'm only 15 but you know what? omg, i'm laughing my ass off because after seeing what i'm gonna write, you dickheads will hide in your little shame hole. my mum and dad were in love ok? my dad is 17 years older? whooo~ scary. you gonna start bashing on me too? they loved each other so to all you's saying she's a gold-digger or shit. imagine if u were in the OP's ******* place, and i'm telling you to **** off because you actually deserve it.

Ok let's think about this. Stepdaughter is possibly, what, 17 maybe? And let's guess the father was a reasonable age, say 25, when stepdaughter was born. That makes the father 42. And you're 23?? And to yummylolly15 (#225) - age gaps become more and more negligible the older you get. So for example, a 35 year old marrying a 52 year old is far more acceptable than, say, a 22 year old marrying a 39 year old. A 39 year old has simply experienced far more life than a 22 year old, (generally) has maturity way beyond a 22 year old... it's like chalk and cheese. Why is it not surprising this is his second marriage? He's gone for a younger, better looking woman. My grandfather's second wife (my Nanna) was 16 years younger than him too. And to vita_es_una_puta (#220) - you still believe that "you can't help who you fall for"?? I'm 21 and I learnt years ago that you damn sure can help who you fall for. Anyway, why is this an FML anyway? You knowingly married a guy who had a daughter who is probably only a few years younger than you. You'd have to expect you were going to have step-grandkids before your 30th birthday.

eff the OP if anyone in this situation has a fml story its the girl that is about to be a teenage mother and has a dumb ass for a step mom, not to mention the age difference between the daughter and the op is probably less then the difference in age between the father and the op... f her life

YDI FOR MARRYING A GUY WITH A DAUGHTER OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE HER OWN KIDS WHEN YOU ARE ONLY 23. what, you didn't think about that before you married the guy?

f HER life that her father remarried someone young enough to be her older sister.... and that you think everything is about you. you're the ******* stepmom. be supportive, not complain because you're going to be a grandmother. YOUR FAULT.