Desiree_lianne
United States
Today, my fiance said his cat is going to be my maid of honor at our wedding. FML
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izzy
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Top comments
KeannaLove 32
If I hadn't eloped when I got married, I would've totally had my dogs as the best men! They are a big part of your life and why wouldn't you to include them? However, if you don't want that speak up. It's both of yours wedding and everyone should be happy!
nzhx 23
It's your wedding too. Neither of you should veto or demand something for/from the other person. Just have a calm talk with him and explain why that a terrible ******* idea
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nzhx 23
It's your wedding too. Neither of you should veto or demand something for/from the other person. Just have a calm talk with him and explain why that a terrible ******* idea
mwali02 32
If he likes his cat so much, why can't it be the best man instead? Can't he compromise? lol! You know I'm kidding OP. Best of luck trying to stir some maturity and reasoning into your future husband.
domolovesyoshi 33
Actually you can veto somethings like for instance the Bride picks her own Bridal party and maid of honour while the groom picks his own Groomsmen and best man.
anyagrande 31
Its not a terrible idea cats are the best
TymeToTry_fml 11
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how is that a terrible idea #1? it's the fregging best idea I've ever heard!
SOILEDIT 51
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bearbear120 27
Because he said the cat was going to be OP's maid of honor. OP probably wants to pick her own maid of honor.
FrostyyFML 15
I know!
KeannaLove 32
If I hadn't eloped when I got married, I would've totally had my dogs as the best men! They are a big part of your life and why wouldn't you to include them? However, if you don't want that speak up. It's both of yours wedding and everyone should be happy!
TymeToTry_fml 11
i can think of a thousand way a dog can ruin your marriage. A cat on the other hand... it's purrfect.
Br0k3nch4r4ct3r 11
TymeTo not try so hard.
tin_cup 27
I thought it was always the Crazy Cat Lady not Crazy Cat Man.
Tripartita 45
It's 2016; we could have the mentally unstable fem demiboy for all we care.
SOILEDIT 51
You better not let this happen. As #1 said, talk with him, and if he is not willing to change his decision, perhaps you need to reevaluate your choice to be with him. If he isn't taking the wedding seriously, what else will be not be able to take seriously?
Nena_100 15
And what if he is being serious? Sure maybe he shouldnt choose her maid of honor but he may be willing to compromise as it being his best man. Id have my puppy be my maid of honor when I get married.
InfiniteSunshine 32
You're the bride, so it's your maid of honor, you're the one that gets to decide who stands beside you at the wedding, he doesn't get to choose that for you. It would be like you choosing his best man.
deejayharry1 11
I agree it is weird
darshini_ii 24
You should probably be happy that he didnt want the cat to walk you down the aisle
ellyhan 11
I don't think the groom gets to decide who the maid of honor is going to be. That's total BS.
DoomedGemini 38
As others have said, talk to him. Perhaps the cat could be a ring bearer or something, I've heard of many animals being in weddings and I don't see why it's "so terrible" or him not taking the wedding seriously. Some people are closer to their animals than people.
MandieL 27
A ring bearer is a better suited role for a pet, but a maid of honor has responsibilities in the wedding. She is supposed to help the bride, sign as a witness, make a toast to the groom, and make sure the bride doesn't go bridezilla if something goes wrong. Plus the maid of honor should be the brides choice. So you are right that pets can be a part of the wedding party (my pup was ring bearer), but his request is ridiculous.
DoomedGemini 38
I actually didn't think over a lot of that truthfully, the only weddings I participated in so far was when I was really young so thank you. But yes, wanting the cat as maid of honor is a bad idea, I just don't understand why some people in the comments think wanting an animal to be part of the wedding is ridiculous or immature.