Today, my fiancé's best friend, who will be our best man at our wedding, decided to confess his feelings for me and tell me how he's always dreamed of us eloping together. The wedding is going to be awkward. FML
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Today, my best friend told me she's been in love with me for over 4 years. I'm getting married to the man of my dreams in a month and she's supposed to be my bridesmaid. "Awkward" doesn't even begin to describe our friendship right now. FML
Today, during my wedding ceremony, the groom-to-be found it appropriate to blurt out about an ongoing affair with my maid of honor. They got married instead. FML
Today, I discovered my fiancé has been telling everyone else we are just friends, yet last night he wanted me to go with him to pick up my engagement ring. I'm supposing the wedding will be a surprise to everyone. FML
Today, my brother announced his engagement. I'm going to be the Maid of Honor. My ex, who told me after five years of dating that he didn't believe in marriage, is going to be the Best Man. I get to walk down the aisle with him. FML
Today, my fiancé told me he wished he never met me and that he wished I didn't exist. Our wedding is next week. FML
Today, I confessed to my boyfriend that I was in love with his best friend. He confessed that he was too. FML
Today, my fiancée decided to go on a "vacation." Our wedding is tomorrow. FML
Today, I found my two best friends making out with each other. Not a big deal, right? Wrong. Today was my wedding day. One of the friends was my maid of honor, the other was my groom. FML
Today, I found out my best friend has been stealing hundreds of dollars from me and my fiancé. My wedding is tomorrow morning. Guess who my best man is. FML
Today, I found out that my fiancé has been lying about where she lives to avoid me. I think she's also sleeping with who was supposed to be the best man at our wedding. FML
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RoseBlack123 37
Definitely tell your fiancé, pretty sure that's unacceptable. He needs to understand that you're out of bounds
Wizardo 34
It doesn't have to be awkward since you'll be with your soon to be husband, its just one day so bear with it for now and you don't have to see this guy afterwards anyway. And this guy probably watches too many reruns of Shrek or something...
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RoseBlack123 37
Definitely tell your fiancé, pretty sure that's unacceptable. He needs to understand that you're out of bounds
jman26 11
Worst case scenario is when OP's fiancé confronts the best man, he'll deny everything and call OP a liar.
Kamon97 23
Either way who's he gonna believe? The woman he loves and marries? Or the best friend?
zgomon 10
#15. I think worst case scenario would be the best man killing the fiancé and kidnapping OP.
Futacy 30
It just seems like a harmless adult crush. Worst case scenario, the best friend gets socked in the face by OP's fiancé if stuff gets out of hand.
negb 30
Harmless adult crushes don't usually involve daydreaming of running away with your best friend's soon to be wife.
michaelaranda 28
this makes me think of himym when ted tells barney he still.has feelings for robin. its this season
etoilenuit 15
He'll probably just try to kiss you, your soon to be husband will witness it, a chase will ensue. But they will work it out and he'll give a toast at your wedding.
ptoka 20
47, I was recently the best man at my brother's wedding. I was the best man, his best friend was the honorary best man, and I can honestly say neither of us would ever imagine stealing his girl away. That's so off limits it should never be brought up, it's their day and their life afterwards. Best wishes OP, and congrats on your day ahead!
Achall91 17
#47 you really think this is something they will get over? They will probably never speak again. Hell, OP's soon to be husband may even kill his ex-bestfriend and OP will never be able to marry either of them. I hope she likes visiting prisons.
MrsDruidess 23
OMG people real life isn't a TV drama, (himym aside cause that wasn't too over the top for TV) OP needs to tell him! He probably won't kill anyone, yes there will we hurt feeling and possible end to a friendship but if OP keeps it to herself and it ever comes out (and it always does) the Husband is going to think OP betrayed him, either for simply keeping secrets (not a great way to start a marriage) or he will think she shared the feelings at least a bit and that's why she didn't tell him. Either way the Best man ****** up, not OP, it needs to be dealt with and the sooner the better. Good luck OP and do tell him soon!!
MrsDruidess 23
and if he does freak out on OP and call her a liar than that's OK too cause who wants to marry that type of shit! Good to find out now where OP stands with her husband to be.
whatafuckup 14
how I met your mother much? -_-
tounces7 28
@24 Hard to say. After all, he may have known his best friend all his life, while he could have only known OP a few years or less.
blinkingstarlet 15
#29 your comment made me laugh so hard my iced tea went up my nose. I think what's most likely to happen is their friendship is over. It's really not a huge loss since he clearly doesn't care about his friend's feelings.
Wizardo 34
It doesn't have to be awkward since you'll be with your soon to be husband, its just one day so bear with it for now and you don't have to see this guy afterwards anyway. And this guy probably watches too many reruns of Shrek or something...
RoseBlack123 37
If he's the best man, I'm pretty sure they're not gonna just suddenly lose all contact with him after marriage...
GraceyBlueEyes 13
After a situation like this they might want to lose all contact. If it was my best friend or my fiance's best friend I wouldn't want anything to do with them. I'd want them out of the wedding too.
BillMurray_fml 12
I was thinking he must've watched The Graduate recently. Or Wayne's World. Either works.
Fx13mz 7
Of course he got the idea from Shrek reruns. Shrek is love, Shrek is life.
MyUsernameKatie 31
Same thing happened to my mom, when she was in her dress and veil. They're still friends. She didn't make it anymore awkward than it had to be
Sputnikspak 13
It was cute in 'Love, Actually'. It's not cute in real life. At all.
MuseFan1991 14
72, i was thinking of Love Actually the second i read this :P i think every woman who watched that scene fell a little bit in love with Andrew Lincoln. well, i know i did
ottokat 15
Don't just wait until the wedding! Talk to him and let him know you love your fiance. Have sympathy on the guy.
MichellinMan 20
Totally agree, I'm sure he'd understand. Unless it's obsessive love, then good luck to OP.
aimeegoldberg 22
He imagined her and himself eloping together. Thats a bit obsessive for me
TwistedCherub1 15
It will only be awkward if you feel the same. Tell the friend he's SOL and to behave himself or back out of his position as best man. Leave it up to him whether or not to tell your fiancé. If he can move on and keep quiet, the two can maintain a friendship despite one bad decision.
Beepbeep7 14
I would not keep it quiet.Omission of something that serious is lying.Op's fiancé has a right to know how his best friend attempted to break bro code.That's not the kind of best friend I would want hanging around.
Eleanor6141 11
oh how lovely. he's gotta learn that you're happily taken and he should've spoken up looooong before or just kept his mouth shut instead.. good luck op!
LanaViolin 10
Make sure you tell your fiancé- hopefully they can still be friends Congratulations on your soon-to-be wedding, OP!
tinyrosie 21
I'd tell your fiancé, that's a teensy bit weird. Why does it have to be awkward? Just have fun and don't think about it! :)
Anai08 17
What did he expect, for you to agree with him and ride off into the sunset together? He's been watching too many movies. -__- It's a tough situation, but I would say it's important to tell your fiancée. Whether it be before or after the wedding is up to you. Good luck OP.
JasonUMN 15
As long as the feeling isn't reciprocal, you will be fine.
gracehi 33
YDI. You're just too awesome, OP. Stop it. Oh, who am I kidding? That's like asking me to stop being so damn wonderful. We just.can't help it, can we? I empathize, OP. FYL.
GraceyBlueEyes 13
What a crappy best friend!
Futacy 30
You can't control your emotions... as long as he doesn't act on them.
SwordMeow 4
This could start a long and arduous debate, but suffice to say, he should have probably told his friend and not his friend's fiance about this.
GraceyBlueEyes 13
@36 exactly what I was thinking.