Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML
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Today, after spending money on all the furniture and decor in our apartment, paying rent every month from my bank account, paying for all the groceries, and paying for all the dog supplies, my fiance asked why I don't keep saving thousands of dollars every month, while he pays for none of it. FML
Today, my boyfriend got mad at me because I wouldn't use $5,000 to build him a new gaming computer with my surrogate compensation, even though he basically refuses to get a job. FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend to help me with groceries, since the last of my money went to last week's groceries. His response was to start a fight, then tell me it's my fault my daughter acts the way she does, which is when he finally got me to break down and cry. I'm pregnant with his kid, and I also pay 90% of our bills. FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
Today, my boyfriend asked me to pick up a few things from the store for him while he was at work. After picking up everything he asked for, I wasn't left with much money so I used $50 from my account. When he got home he then grumbled about me spending all of "his" money. FML
Today, my dad screamed at me because I've been "spending too much money". He's been out of a job for 4 months and I've been giving him 300 dollars a month to help pay for bills... and his beer. FML
Today, my boyfriend keeps mentioning how well his new job pays, while I don’t have any income. He then got upset when I expected him to pay for the groceries I got on my way to his new place. What I bought was stuff I needed so I could cook for him, and for me to eat while I’m there, cleaning and fixing stuff for him. FML
Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML
Today, my fiancé refused to talk to me because I'm "an alcoholic". I only started drinking like this after we moved in together and he brought me alcohol every day, because he's an alcoholic. FML
Today, my husband and I have been fighting because I gave our son his college fund, even though he got a full-ride scholarship. My husband didn't think it was necessary and wanted to use it for other things. FML
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MissHeart 0
you deserve better :/
Sparkiee93 3
Don't put up with that shit OP, dump his lazy ass!
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Comments (433)
dquintero 2
I have the same problem
kurai88 4
I would suggest much the same as other commenters: Don't marry him. 1) he doesn't have a job (could be excused by being a student, but his other actions condem him) 2) seems to be financially dependent on you, his partner (again, if he's a student it could be excused, but...) 3) expects you to work harder to provide for already seemingly comfortable exiscence. and probably doesn't appreciate the effort you put in. Think about it in the long run - is this situation likely to change? Probably not. Even if he gets a job, he will probably keep the same attitude. You may wish and expect for him to change, but odds are he won't. You either have to be at peace with him the way he is (not a pleasant option) or get out while you can with relatively little trouble.
sanchez01 0
why are u engaged to a guy that has never had a jobb!!?
Ranimal 12
You're pretty much ******. If he has never had a job before and has you to rely on, then if he ever gets a job, he will never be able to hold it down. He most likely already has the mindset that he doesn't need to do anything but still gets what he wants. YDI.
aquariusangel420 0
Brillant
dansco 25
Do you both have Mummy issues? You want to mother him and he wants to be mothered?! Sounds like it!
mikho23 0
actually, you are the one to blame for that... you knew how he was and still decided to get ingaged! dump him... better for you
Avenged7Gabe 0
what's wrong with Call of duty?
missSin 0
you're going to marry a man with zero work ethic? you are an idiot and deserve this. you have allowed him to never have a job?! why wouldn't he milk you for everything he can. p.s. he is probably cheating on your stupid ass while you're at work!!
carmenm 6
you really picked a winner to get married to ha YDI