Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, after spending money on all the furniture and decor in our apartment, paying rent every month from my bank account, paying for all the groceries, and paying for all the dog supplies, my fiance asked why I don't keep saving thousands of dollars every month, while he pays for none of it. FML
Today, my boyfriend got mad at me because I wouldn't use $5,000 to build him a new gaming computer with my surrogate compensation, even though he basically refuses to get a job. FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend to help me with groceries, since the last of my money went to last week's groceries. His response was to start a fight, then tell me it's my fault my daughter acts the way she does, which is when he finally got me to break down and cry. I'm pregnant with his kid, and I also pay 90% of our bills. FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
Today, my boyfriend asked me to pick up a few things from the store for him while he was at work. After picking up everything he asked for, I wasn't left with much money so I used $50 from my account. When he got home he then grumbled about me spending all of "his" money. FML
Today, my dad screamed at me because I've been "spending too much money". He's been out of a job for 4 months and I've been giving him 300 dollars a month to help pay for bills... and his beer. FML
Today, my boyfriend keeps mentioning how well his new job pays, while I don’t have any income. He then got upset when I expected him to pay for the groceries I got on my way to his new place. What I bought was stuff I needed so I could cook for him, and for me to eat while I’m there, cleaning and fixing stuff for him. FML
Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML
Today, my fiancé refused to talk to me because I'm "an alcoholic". I only started drinking like this after we moved in together and he brought me alcohol every day, because he's an alcoholic. FML
Today, my husband and I have been fighting because I gave our son his college fund, even though he got a full-ride scholarship. My husband didn't think it was necessary and wanted to use it for other things. FML
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MissHeart 0
you deserve better :/
Sparkiee93 3
Don't put up with that shit OP, dump his lazy ass!
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Comments (433)
AnaDarkAngel 0
Are you sure you want to marry that loser???
dewoww 0
ydi for dating him in the first place. if you love him that much to get engaged with him you should stop complaining. either leave him or be happy.
medrano2008 0
you're a retard! why would you even bother with a person like that!
numberswoman 14
Make him leave - NOW! Speaking from personal experience lazy ***** like that only get worse. I was married to one for too long, so I know how it works.
pip74205 9
Why on earth are you even dating a guy like that!?
aleksa1612 0
it's your fault for staying with him and paying for his stuff. leave now before you regret your marriage to such a lazy douchebag.
ThickHead 0
dump his ass
anon_e_m00se 8
I'm going to give you the same advice I just gave FFFFF (the guy who's gf said she was in the hospital for a suicide attempt, just to see if he was really committed or not): Dump that manipulative ****. (and, just to head off any snarky replies, yes, I realize the **** in question is a male)
BunnyXX 3
Please get rid of him... You deserve so much better... If he is this selfish at this stage... can you imagine how he will be in the future???? Wow!
Norwegian_Wood 4
Marriage doesn't automatically fix problems like this. If you are writing an FML, then obviously his behavior bothers you. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him, and consider the possibility that he won't change. And if he doesn't change, or won't, you really need to dump his sorry, lazy ass.